Jealous guys

[Guillain]

Hi, I was talking to this girl on the phone, and she said: "I like when a guy is jealous, it shows that the guy really loves me"
And the bible says to never be jealous.
Any thoughts on that?

 

[Gangster Of Love]

If you read the DJ Bible, it will probably show you what an attention ***** she is. She loves getting attention from as many guys as possible. Also, why would you believe anything a girl tells you about ; they themselves don't even know what the want.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Guillain
Hi, I was talking to this girl on the phone, and she said: "I like when a guy is jealous, it shows that the guy really loves me"
And the bible says to never be jealous.
Any thoughts on that?

Translation: "I like attention, it makes me feel pretty and inflates my ego."

Don't be an ego-stroker. You may feel jealous, but YOU control it. Don't let it interfere with the way you think or act.

 

[Bill]

Ok, I think you're gonna get pretty much the exact same feedback on this...

A guy getting jealous at another guy about some girl just strokes that girl's ego; hence if a girl says "I like when a guy is jealous, it shows that the guy really loves me" she doesn't mean 'love' as in 'I love you', more like 'I love when you show me just how desireable I am by being jealous'.

Think of it this way: what if you had a gf (sorry if you do have one, I'll just assume you don't) and when you walk by the mall girls just look at her and say 'omg look at her, what a (insert feminine insult here) she looks like, can't believe he fell for her'... what would you say to that? how would you feel? you'd feel as being The Pimp wouldn't you?

There you go, I think you have your answer. Last advice: don't take what women say too seriously, because often they don't mean it.
Peace.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by Guillain
Hi, I was talking to this girl on the phone, and she said: "I like when a guy is jealous, it shows that the guy really loves me"
And the bible says to never be jealous.
Any thoughts on that?

Sounds truthful to me, but meaningless. She also could truthfully say, "I like when guys give me gifts even though I have no intention of phucking them."

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

The only problem with jealousy is how a person reacts to their own jealousy. Flying off the handle isn't cool but acknowledging being jealous and showing you can handle it can win you points.

For example, I sent my gf to the hardware store the other day. It was hot and she was wearing shorts and a tank top. When she got back she made sure to let me know that the guy there told her to 'be sure to come back.' I let it go and kept working.

A little later she had to make another run back for more supplies. As she was leaving I yelled out to her jokingly not to flirt with the sales-guys this time. She must have blushed 3 shades of red. I let her know in a round about way what I thought about guys coming on to her while stroking her ego. Easy DJ points

 

[ZeeOwl]

Yep. Same feeling as the other guys. This girl has a low self-esteem, and wants a boost. I'm not the jealous type at all, and that used to drive my ex-wife nuts. Sometimes, she would tell me about guys who flirted with her at such&such a place (funny it never happened when I was around lol), and it never phased me. She would get so mad at me for not giving her a reaction....

 

[Guillain]

Hahha ZeeOwl, pretty funny
and nice tips Francisco!

 

[Healer]

Count yourself lucky that she is not telling you that she's met a new guy and wants to sex him, JUST to get attention from you.

I know this chick who wants attention from me so badly that when I dont give it to her, she threatens to sex-up some other fellow she tells me that wants her real bad.

Then once I fvck the brains out of her she tells me she loves me.


Then In turn, if I give attention to some other chick she FLIPS OUT on me and gets INSANELY jealous. I keep my backbone up and tell her to let it drop cause I cant stand jealous girls and if she does it again I will drop her like loose change.

her excuse is that Jealousy is a way of showing she loves me.

what a load of crap

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Healer
Count yourself lucky that she is not telling you that she's met a new guy and wants to sex him, JUST to get attention from you.

I know this chick who wants attention from me so badly that when I dont give it to her, she threatens to sex-up some other fellow she tells me that wants her real bad.

Then once I fvck the brains out of her she tells me she loves me.


Then In turn, if I give attention to some other chick she FLIPS OUT on me and gets INSANELY jealous. I keep my backbone up and tell her to let it drop cause I cant stand jealous girls and if she does it again I will drop her like loose change.

her excuse is that Jealousy is a way of showing she loves me.

what a load of crap

A lot of women feel that when a guy shows his jealousy it proves that he cares about her. That type of drama doesn't happen with women with integrity who are giving and flexible.