Jealous Girlfriend

[ActorMan]

Hey PUA's

I would in no way call myself a PUA. I do however get a fair amount of attention from girls. My current girlfriend is the jealous type.

For instance: A girl from high school e-mailed me and said that she would like to meet up and hear about how I am doing. I tell my girlfriend this and she gets upset. Well, one night we are messing around and she says to me "I've thought about it and if you go see her then I am going to see ***"

The guy she was talking about is a guy she was close with last year. I know she does not have feelings for him, but I knew she said that to get a rise out of me. (she says she likes it when I get a little angry)

She also gets mad when I talk to girls at parties. Girls who are friends of both of us.

So my question is How do you deal with a girlfriend who is consistently jealous?

 

[kreuz]

Dear ActorMan,

Well my friend you have found yourself in a standard ****-test that many ladies enjoy using. First you need to learn that she is your girlfriend and she does not need to know -everything- about you or -everyone- you hang out with. Second, jealous women are low esteem women. You need to step back and realize that she will do all she can to train you into what she wants, not what she needs. So grow a pair, be a man, and realize she is not your mother and you have the right as a -man- to go out with whomever you please. If she cannot understand that you have your own social life then you need to walk away and never look back.

If you need any help just let me know via pm, I have dealt with a few of these women in the past myself.

All my best, keep your chin up, and remember you have a pair,
-K

 

[KontrollerX]

"So my question is How do you deal with a girlfriend who is consistently jealous?"

You don't.

You next them for someone sane and respectful of you and your boundaries.

Someone who trusts you and who you can trust.

You're a young guy and chicks seem to be interested in you so why keep this type of hassle in your life?

She's already doing manipulative controlling power plays and trust me bro it is not going to get any better.

Eject now or later but I assure you, you will eject eventually.

A relationship should not be about fixing someone else and making them more to your liking.

They should already be to your liking completely.

Like the legendary poster Anti Dump said: "You buy a relationship not build one."

 

[Bible_Belt]

Hey PUA's
My current girlfriend is the jealous type.

Cool. Jealousy in women is entertaining. It's an easy button to push that will allow you to manipulate her emotions.

However, it's a double-edged sword. She is also going to be skilled in doing the same to you.

This is a big sh!t-test:

A girl from high school e-mailed me and said that she would like to meet up and hear about how I am doing. I tell my girlfriend this and she gets upset. Well, one night we are messing around and she says to me "I've thought about it and if you go see her then I am going to see ***"

The guy she was talking about is a guy she was close with last year. I know she does not have feelings for him, but I knew she said that to get a rise out of me. (she says she likes it when I get a little angry)


The right answer would have been to coolly reply, "of course you can go see him. I'm not your boss. You two have fun." Then if she does see the guy, you go and see the other girl. Do everything you can to have sex with the other girl; just assume that your girl is getting fvcked by her other guy. Then when you see your gf again, act like nothing happened. Don't ask a single question about her seeing the other guy. You really don't want to talk about it, especially if you know that you got laid, but that she probably did not - at least the odds are less than the 100% of your own. This will drive her mad with jealous envy and she will become infatuated with you. She'll also do whatever you want in bed and be a lot hornier. The other guy will turn afc and call her ten times a day; you two can laugh at him as you lie in bed together.