"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jealous girl pulled girl away, what must be done a result?

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Alright, my salsa class decided to take a field trip to a salsa club yesterday night. The class contains lots of hot single ladies of whom most show high interest level in me. However, there are two particular one that I really I like. One of them recently broke-up with her boyfriend (lets call her HB1) while the other has been single for a while now, who is also hotter than HB1. Lets call her HB2. Of the two, I like HB2 the most.
At the salsa club, I took an AFC friend with me who is not in the class and has no salsa dancing skills, so he did not dance much. I danced with almost all the girls from my class that were at the club and some other random girls. Amazingly, the two girls I like drove to the club together. I first danced with HB2 then HB1. Later on, I danced with HB2 again for good half an hour plus which made HB1 very jealous.
While on the dance floor jamming, I noticed my AFC friend was just standing there with HB1 and did not want to dance. Well, HB1 got approached by two guys somehow while I was on the dance floor with HB2. About ten minutes later, jealoused HB1 came and pulled HB2 away from me. Initially, HB2 did not want to go but since she came with HB1, she left with her. Moments later, I saw them dancing on the dance floor with the two guys, WTF.

I'll be meeting them both tomorrow in class. I'm thinking of what to ask them when I meet them. Should I ask:
HB1: Why the fvck did you pull HB1 away from me when I realized that she was dancing with me?
HB2: Why did you obey your HB1's command when you know that you were dancing with me? Are you the type that rely on the decisions of others and cannot make decisions on your own?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Side note....

I forgot to mention my friend told me on our way home that while I was on the dance floor dancing with other chicks, HB2 told HB1 I showed no interest in her. She told her I only talk to her about "school stuff." which is very true. I'll start the flow tomorrow, folks. Take her for a walk, and talk to her DJ style.
 

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1) How can you dance with a hot girl and NOT be aroused? Why weren't you showing any interest?

2) Get better wings. If you go dancing at a salsa club, make sure your wing can dance.
 

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squirrels said:
1) How can you dance with a hot girl and NOT be aroused? Why weren't you showing any interest?

2) Get better wings. If you go dancing at a salsa club, make sure your wing can dance.
Yeah that was something I should have done... go with good wing capable of dancing salsa. Yes, I was fullly aroused when dancing with her. What she was refering to was when we were in class.... that was when I talked to her about her class. Damn at the dance floor, I nearly kissed her. We danced soo close, I guessed that made HB1 so jealous.
 

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you're an idiot. don't act like it's a big deal.

forget about it, run tight game. get a wingman who doesn't suck.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah...at least your wing didn't fall asleep, lol.

Sounds like fun, HB1 is interested, but she's pissed at you for not showing it back (hence school stuff).

Best way to get her going, take her on a little date...a little little date...and focus on her for it. :)
 

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Don't even mention it. You've got lots of ladies, who cares if one of them does'nt dance exclusively with you.

HB1 is more interested in you now than HB2 because you showed HB2 too much interest.
 
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