"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jealous F-buddy

BlackDragon

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What do do about this? I have a F-buddy that saw me at the club kissing another girl. She said I disrespected her or some stupid ****. The whole night I could tell she was jealous becuase she kept grabing my ass, saying she was prettier than her, wanted to dance with me, and tried talking to other guys and my friends to get my attention. I thought it was ok becuase she was the one that told me see wasn't in love with me and call me her f-buddy. Did i really disrespect her?

The next day she tried calling me 3 times and text me a bunch of times. I didn't respond at all till the following day. That night at the club she saw me with other girls. I danced with her for one song but she start asking me if I Fcuk that girl the other night. I lied ofcouse. I like my f-buddy but i wouldn't want anything more than that with her. I wouldn't trust her and I know she been around. She also has an attitude like she is the ****.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lust

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Screw it.

A f-buddy.

Meaning, all you do is fvck her.

Keep it up, don't let her influence you too much. If she wants to be jealous, well then fine, let her be. Just try and keep it friendly so you can still fvck her.
 

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BlackDragon said:
What do do about this? I have a F-buddy that saw me at the club kissing another girl. She said I disrespected her or some stupid ****. The whole night I could tell she was jealous becuase she kept grabing my ass, saying she was prettier than her, wanted to dance with me, and tried talking to other guys and my friends to get my attention.
I've had this happen as well. They almost always want more. And if you are fukking a chick the attention seeking mechanism in her brain goes crazy when she see you with someone else, regardless of your status. It's funny to watch them quite obviously vying for your attention by talking to other dudes while looking over their shoulder to make sure you see them. Just go about your business cause she's only doing it for you, not to pick up someone else.
 
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