"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jealous F-buddy

BlackDragon

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What do do about this? I have a F-buddy that saw me at the club kissing another girl. She said I disrespected her or some stupid ****. The whole night I could tell she was jealous becuase she kept grabing my ass, saying she was prettier than her, wanted to dance with me, and tried talking to other guys and my friends to get my attention. I thought it was ok becuase she was the one that told me see wasn't in love with me and call me her f-buddy. Did i really disrespect her?

The next day she tried calling me 3 times and text me a bunch of times. I didn't respond at all till the following day. That night at the club she saw me with other girls. I danced with her for one song but she start asking me if I Fcuk that girl the other night. I lied ofcouse. I like my f-buddy but i wouldn't want anything more than that with her. I wouldn't trust her and I know she been around. She also has an attitude like she is the ****.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lust

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Screw it.

A f-buddy.

Meaning, all you do is fvck her.

Keep it up, don't let her influence you too much. If she wants to be jealous, well then fine, let her be. Just try and keep it friendly so you can still fvck her.
 

STR8UP

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BlackDragon said:
What do do about this? I have a F-buddy that saw me at the club kissing another girl. She said I disrespected her or some stupid ****. The whole night I could tell she was jealous becuase she kept grabing my ass, saying she was prettier than her, wanted to dance with me, and tried talking to other guys and my friends to get my attention.
I've had this happen as well. They almost always want more. And if you are fukking a chick the attention seeking mechanism in her brain goes crazy when she see you with someone else, regardless of your status. It's funny to watch them quite obviously vying for your attention by talking to other dudes while looking over their shoulder to make sure you see them. Just go about your business cause she's only doing it for you, not to pick up someone else.
 
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