"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jealous Alpha male.

Nygard

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I realized that there cant be 2 alpha males in a group. I didnt know that before, I was just being very social with everybody in my class except this guy and his friends who never liked me for some reason I didnt understand until today, concidentially, the guy fits the "alpha male" description.
I was told that said guy was like obsessed about me, but in a negative way. He is always talking about how he hates me, about how I look like, about the way I am, about how badly he wants to swing a punch at me, and many other negative stuff. In a normal situation I wouldnt mind about that, but the problem is that I know that this guy is really really angry for a reason (apparently, i'm taking his alpha male status out, as part of the bottcamp :p ) and he might be a phisical threat in the near future. I wouldnt mind beating him somehow, but he's got two friends that are gang members and therefore dangerous ( Gangs in colombia = Oh crap... :eek: )

What should I do then?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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backbreaker

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find a different group of people to hang around. your english is GREAT by the way
 

Nygard

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You see, the problem isnt the group. I'm good friends with 80% of the group. In fact, they told me when he started to talk smack about me. Besides, I cant avoid going to classes.

And thanks for the comment about my english, I've worked a lot on it over the years :D
 

Alphamale1821

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The best thing you can do is simply try to avoid contact with him. If worst comes to worst when an altercation breaks out just make sure you've got your boys with you in case he and his crew of gangsta's wanna jump you. I've been in a similar situation but not to the point where violence has broke out. Back in the days before i found myself i was a bit of a goofy kid, i finally figure out who i am through the advice of my buddy rob and the internet. I noticed as the days go on my buddy rob would try to amog me in front of girls and he would imitate my voice.

At first i figured it was simply mockery but i soon caught on that he found me as a threat thus part of the reason he stopped hanging out with me. Also like you within the group all the guys like me but it is rob who i can tell is jealous of me. Just try to avoid him within the group or better yet you could try befriending him. However "haters" hate it even more when you are nice to them because it proves more and more that you are better then them. Just always be on guard when around him or his thugs and expect anything.
 
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