"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a buddy who has oneitis.

I showed him the definition, but he insists that he "keeps her in the back of his mind". He talks about her quite often, and it does get rather annoying, but he's stopped talking about her as much because he realizes that it's annoying.

I want him to join this forum and start posting so you guys can help him, but he's a bit... lazy.

I'm here with him now and I'll read to him what you guys say, maybe one of you can say something profund enough to get him to sign up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Morpheus : "You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inert, so hopelessly dependant on the system, that they will fight to protect it."
 
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People should commit themselves to improving their own lives, this is not the task of anyone else.

If your friend wants to stay in a Disney movie forever then let him.
 
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