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2000 posts baby!
PM spam him!:cheer: :cheer: :woo:
PM spam him!:cheer: :cheer: :woo:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jariel has hit the big 2-Oh!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Noooo!
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!! :cheer: Do I get a present or something now?
To be honest, if I reached 2000+ posts on any other forum I'd be feeling quite ashamed of myself by now, but reading and posting here has been one of the most productive things I've done with my free time. I've been here just over 2 years and have completely turned my life around! Thanks SoSuave!
After all the help and direction I've received here, I hope that I've returned the favour for other posters and hope I can continue to do the same.
And DJDamage is right btw. I went through a name change after turning a corner. Here is my first ever post on this forum. Read it and cringe!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=49049
For the record, she was actually the worst girlfriend a guy could ever wish for: the epitomy of an attention wh0re, b!tch, slvt and gold digger rolled into one! I was such a blind AFC!
To be honest, if I reached 2000+ posts on any other forum I'd be feeling quite ashamed of myself by now, but reading and posting here has been one of the most productive things I've done with my free time. I've been here just over 2 years and have completely turned my life around! Thanks SoSuave!
After all the help and direction I've received here, I hope that I've returned the favour for other posters and hope I can continue to do the same.
And DJDamage is right btw. I went through a name change after turning a corner. Here is my first ever post on this forum. Read it and cringe!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=49049
For the record, she was actually the worst girlfriend a guy could ever wish for: the epitomy of an attention wh0re, b!tch, slvt and gold digger rolled into one! I was such a blind AFC!
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Glad to see you overcame her!
That biitch!
Here, have a rep point =)
That biitch!
Here, have a rep point =)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.