"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Japanese Women Tradeoffs

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I recently ended the best relationship I've had amicably. The reason being is that I felt I would be financially supporting her (34) in the future, although I'm living comfortably. No current plans to have kids.

What I'm seeing is that these women are very loyal, give you the lead/space and take care of their appearance. The downside however, is their lack of drive to adapt to society and pursuit of financial independence.

At what point do you guys see the tradeoff between companionship and financial security?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Really, you want one that will be kind of half way. Where they aren't a psycho feminist and see it for the fraud it is, and one that isn't super religious and wants to work and make their own money as well. You'll likely see this type of women as being most common in more less religious yet somewhat conservative circles. Think a country chick who likes to do things outside and has a bit of a tomboyish edge without dressing like a dude. I think this is where you'd find it the most. Just my opinion though. Where you are least to find it is hugely religious circles, and in many large cities they might have jobs, but are going to be a huge pain in the ass to attempt any kind of relationship, plus they will likely be feminists who are still convinced (and this is before the recent abortion thing even) without a shred of evidence, that women have less rights than men.
 
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