japanese girls-what your experience with them

[joe45]

has anyone dated or had a japanese gf before. the ones that come here to study english for 1 yr. i am seeing one right now. seems like everytime we go out she would give me the money back. we would go watch a movie and i pay for it with my credit card and she'll give me the money owning back.. this goes for everything-coffee, dinner. i never had a girl like this before.
also after 4th date she was agreeable to have a relationship-bf/gf with me ,and open to making out and sex. shes open to sex with someone like me who we barely knew each other, but doesn; like talking about sex. she also seems pretty open to sex without any relationship attachments. (something i noticed)
also went we go out we jsut bus or meet up and she never cared that i never drove her around. i dated a few girls that cared about just meeting up and busing. she also didnt care to just do free activites like just walk in park or play b ball.
the thing i dont like about her is shes seems very secrective. you will ask her questions about her family,what she did on weekend, exs-why it ended and shes seems unwilling to share.
the bad thing is that i read her text msgs on her cell and it seems like she has a lover. and i overheard her say i love you on her cell phone call.she invited for the weekend up in victoria to spend time with her and her friends in a hotel. so what is it.
what has your experience with dating japanese girls. i like to hear them. is this a cultural thing with jap girls

 

[yuppaz]

It's not cultural at all...they are way more manipulative (some of them) then American girls are. You need to watch out that she's in it for the green card. I was living with one for 7 years, and she was BDP X10 AND I was boning another one recently that is stalking me now.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Japanese girls are so conservative sometimes it gets a little bit annoying, but then Japanese girls also have some great mannerisms like you just described, probably raised to be good girls by their mothers. The Japanese girls that were raised in Japan are definitely different, only dated like 2 of them but they were a different animal to handle than normal girls raised here. Although they act quite differently, you shouldn't act differently either, and that was probably my mistake. I thought since they were different I needed to be different myself. Just be the way you always have been and put your foot down on this "lover" she has.

 

[Veridin]

No chip on their shoulder. That's worth a lot.

 

[AAAgent]

don't talk to this guy, it's a waste of your time.

Joe Come back when you actually learn something or listen to the advice that has been given to you countless times in the past. Then maybe the forum members will actually be willing to help you again.