"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Canadiandon

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Hey guys I’m 25 yr male I live in Toronto part time and Tokyo Japan the rest of the time lol. Let me break down the pick up potential where I live in Tokyo.

1) Rapongi just about anyone can pick up without even much of an effort, it is not much of a challenge. But the negative is there is a lack of love hotels in the area unless someone can prove me wrong and tell me where some are in the area.

2) Shibuya: During the day girls are usually hanging around outside waiting for you to talk to them, and the HMV is an great and easy place to get some numbers. At night alls I have to say is club pure because it's all you can drink for 2000yen Friday and Saturday full of tipsy/drunk Japanese girls, this is another place that is very easy to pick up for some quick love no problem. The love hotels are literally around the corner from the club.

3) Shinjuku: Girls walking to fast to stop an talk, but I found that hanging around some of the many stores and video game parlors can get you some numbers and possibly a quickie but highly un likely without a first date or two.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Krassus

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Dammit, always wanted to go to Tokyo. Your promise of easy pickups is NOT helping :D
 

Canadiandon

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Easy pick ups yes, but I must warn you and others that yes Japan is a great place to pick up women but I'm just speaking from personal experience and that the success rate of picking up Japanese girls will differ for each person.
 

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Thought i would chime in since no one else has saiid they are in Japan. I don't live there, but I'm going to be in Japan in about a month.

I will be spending ~4 days in tokyo, the rest (15 days) in Tochigi and possibly driving to Osaka. I'm definately looking forward to primo hash and hot japanese women. mmm, and definately korokke (no not karaoke).

Easy pick ups is right, if you are a foreigner (esp. w/ blond hair or if you are black). Japanese girls can't get seem to get enough gaijin c0ck.

I don't have any bar/club reccomendations - I've only spent a month in Tokyo and then I was usually getting plastered at Gas Panic exclusively because one of the guys I was staying with worked there. Not really recommended if you aren't getting free drinks.

Also, I am not a big fan of Rapongi due to the huge number of other foreigners there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Supra

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damn ! i've always wanted to go to japan for the hot ass woman . ONE DAY I"LL BE THERE and will most definatly dye my hair blonde :D
 

madgame

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Is it easy to get one night stands in Tokyo without leading the girl on and having her want you to be your b/f afterwards...? Ive read a page of a guy who talked about his "adventures" in tokyo (and posted pics and videos to back it up) but he obviously led the girls on, which Im not into..
 

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damn ive always wanted to go to tokyo. someday i will. MARK MY WORDS!!!
 

RBB

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Julian WILL someday go to tokyo. - Marked.

How's the Japanese airport for picking up? lol. I think I have a 10 hour stop over on my way back from the US.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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