"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Japan = AFC capital of the world

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Ninja Dude said:
No they are apparently afraid of ALL females, and most of the younger generation would opt for something on a screen. Some other poster has a thread on here about the worlds masturbation champion, also Japanese. He has a GF who won't f-ck him, but its okay because he prefers looking at Hentai hookers and stroking his own meat. :rolleyes:

I do agree that a lot of American men are clueless chumps who settle for less all the time, but at least most are still trying to get their d-cks wet in some actual snatch and not some 3D fantasy BS

BTW what's up with your contempt for America? You always manage to sneak it into like every post you make. Were you man-raped by a bunch of yanks? Still feeling the butt-hurt? Pick up ya trousers, put some Preparation-H on that cornhole and get over it, b-tch.
Yanks? Who the f--- uses the term Yanks in 2012? Please. You can't really be one of those slobbery Brits that my friends in Latvia are always beating up. Can you? You know the ones. The ones who show up in Riga dressed in drag for their bachelor parties. They are basically the ONLY foreign males that isn't going to get any action from hot young girls there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Burroughs said:
I say it many times.

Historically a woman lived to serve men...and it was good...

Look at your average Indian engineer or scientist. He is potbellied, overweight, and nerdy yet his wife is on pins and needles to serve him because that is their CULTURE. This frees the Indian man to focus on things other than puzzy..thats a main reason India is kicking out azz technically

...In India nerds get laid. In Japan and America they don't...guess which society is on the rise?

If as men we don't have the will or ability to return women to an inferior position legally, economically, and socially...western civilization will fall.

And oh by the way...that last statement...doesn't stop me from going to the club and trying to fvck (keeping my political feelings to myself of course :).
As India becomes more and more westernized it will happen to them also.

America and Japan were once like India.

Before long we will be a world full of AFC's.
 

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Burroughs said:
A lot of this has to do with time..I have a high pressure job, a daughter to raise, if I had the $$ I would have porn stars flown in every 2 weeks, how is that different than jerking to porn.

Men are jaded but I think overall they have a right to be...women are raising the standards weekly it seems...and don't give me the old ''don't blame the game' routine..I mean would you play basketball if they lowered the rim for midgets to dunk and made it illegal for 6 foot plus guys to dunk...cause that's the dating game right now (the chicks are the midgets)...hb 4 or 5 fattie chickes looking for 8-9 guys..seriously that's what its becoming...I can see why japanese dudes have given up...I'm lucky I can throw on an armani shirt and be an 8 on a good day, I can get laid twice a month, if I didn't have that the world would be a harsh place...
I feel you man. These are my exact sentiments as well. I would consider myself in a similar position as yourself but women aren't throwing themselves at me and I suffer plenty of rejection. It can be demoralizing at times and I can totally understand why plenty of men don't even bother to try.

I mean if your only two options as an average guy are

1. Approach women, get rejected, flaked, ignored, scoffed, laughed at.
2. Withdraw

Then naturally what we're seeing in Japan is to be expected. I mean who can blame them when most women today won't even talk to you if you're not over 6 feet tall, a steroid monkey, or make seven figures a year?
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
It's a control issue. I don't like the power that women have over me. And it isn't even something that they had to work hard for; they were fvcking born with it.
I don't know what to say about that. It's natural to have pervy thoughts about hot girls. If you suppress that, then you are denying your nature and that can manifest it self in some very unhealthy ways. Not to mention that if you are attractive to them, then you will be in the position of power. Even if that is not the case, you still have a lot of power. You can decide to not let things bother you, you can decide wether or not you want to approach the girl, you can decide to walk away if things are going well.



TyTe`EyEz said:
Another problem is the level of women that I'm attracting. It frustrates me that I can't get the dime pieces that I want. You may enjoy jacking off to women that you wish you could fvck, but I get sick of that sh1t. Don't get me wrong here - I can attract women. They just aren't dime pieces. It's an ego thing.
That's just part of life. You can't win em all, as the old saying goes. It's cliche I know, but it's true. It might be frustrating in the short run, but if you put things in perspective, you won't even remember that dime piece in a year, maybe even a lot less than that.
 

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Spot on. +1

Most guys need to have a VERY thick skin or forget about women because their standards are so high.

It boils my blood even more when I hear women mock guys who withdrew from the dating scene and/or just haven't found anyone. I hear women at work saying things like, "What's up with so and so? Is he gonna be a bachelor FOREVER?"

These women could find a guy this afternoon if they wanted to. They have NO idea what a guy goes through.

sstype said:
I feel you man. These are my exact sentiments as well. I would consider myself in a similar position as yourself but women aren't throwing themselves at me and I suffer plenty of rejection. It can be demoralizing at times and I can totally understand why plenty of men don't even bother to try.

I mean if your only two options as an average guy are

1. Approach women, get rejected, flaked, ignored, scoffed, laughed at.
2. Withdraw

Then naturally what we're seeing in Japan is to be expected. I mean who can blame them when most women today won't even talk to you if you're not over 6 feet tall, a steroid monkey, or make seven figures a year?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct said:
Spot on. +1

Most guys need to have a VERY thick skin or forget about women because their standards are so high.

It boils my blood even more when I hear women mock guys who withdrew from the dating scene and/or just haven't found anyone. I hear women at work saying things like, "What's up with so and so? Is he gonna be a bachelor FOREVER?"

These women could find a guy this afternoon if they wanted to. They have NO idea what a guy goes through.
Thanks Mike,

I want to also add that I am sick of the shaming language and double standard both men and women attach to men who enjoy porn and video games.

Men who watches porn/plays video games = loser who can't get laid

Woman who watches porn/play video games = OMG so awesome and empowered!

Plenty of sosuavers are guilty of this shaming tactic as well. There's nothing wrong with being a Halo nerd, or enjoy looking at naked women so long as its in moderation. Just because I don't want to troll bars and clubs every weekend or be a full-time social robot does not make me a loser so anyone arrogant enough to judge me for doing the things I want to do can shove it.

Maybe if women weren't so unnecessarily difficult, paranoid, and judgmental towards men then men would see more incentive to put down the game controller and interact more with the opposite sex. Of course, I don't see the average woman being introspective as in their mind they're "oh so perfect, nothing could be wrong with me."
 
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