"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jammed my thumb during basket ball, but want to work out

Zaraza

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Hey guys,

I was playing basketball with a couple of friends and on a three point shot my friend missed the ball and slammed by thumb straight on. Its been puffed up for a few days now and kinda hurts. I went to a chiropractor and he checked it out, said it is not broken just swollen. It hurts sometimes, but i really really want to lift right now and excercise, infact its killing me just sitting here with nothing to do. What do you say? go ahead and lift or let it rest more?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i wouldnt. u could seriously hurt yourself. u COULD probably do pushups and situps tho, without hurting yourself. and u can run
 

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thanks,

im gonna try going mountain biking as i only have to hold the handles and not really lift anything. Dang man, i got on a schedule and loved it. My body loved being tortured 3 times a week and cardio 1 or 2 times. Now i feel like crap lol. hopefully today wont be too hard on my thumb.
 

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i know how u feel man. im kinda injury prone myself so i know how frustrating it can be, but your thumb should be feeling better in about a week or 2. its recommended that u take a week or 2 off from lifting every few months, anyway. just think of this as ur break time
 

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Thats true, i guess this can be my off time. The only thing that sucks is i work at a bank and i use the keyboard and 10 key often. So my thumb sometimes hurts while typing. I dont know how i went without working out for so long in the past. lol.

im out to rest and then grab the bike and load it in the car.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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