"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jamie Fox showing Alpha and Hilarious

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I watched this and was laughing like crazy but also thought it was a great example of alpha. I felt bad for the other guy but you have to give it to Foxx. Hes quick witted, hilarious, and obviously really confident. Having those 3 attributes is a killer combo. Anyways give it a watch, its definitely entertaining if nothing else and gives you a great example of how to think on your feet.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_L-gbpKZpo
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes that was good...living in SoCal many yrs ago, where seems like everyone is into theatre, makes me wonder if this was staged.
 

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It's absolutely NOT "alpha" at all. The guy was an up and coming comedian trying to make a name for himself and Jamie Foxx, being the guy who can't respect a newcomer's time totally helps in killing any credibility that Doug Williams had. Jamie of all people should know what it's like when no one knows you from a random guy off the street and you're trying to make them laugh.

On the other hand comedians bomb all the time...but not like this. Not in front of the whole f*cking world. There's a reason for a roast; you can point out the person's flaws because they already have so much going for them.

Jamie just adds malicious insults and make sure the guy never bounces back from it.

I always think through experience and empathy you should help your fellow entertainers come up in the world because you're been a no name yourself.

I can't respect Jamie Foxx for doing what he did. An alpha move would be Jamie Foxx trying to pull that sh!t on Chris Rock or Steve Harvey.
 

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You know if Williams HAD been quick enough, rather than rolling over to be Fox's *****, he could have played right along with it. Made either fun of himself or of Fox. But he seemed like the deer in the headlights
 

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white sox bill said:
You know if Williams HAD been quick enough, rather than rolling over to be Fox's *****, he could have played right along with it. Made either fun of himself or of Fox. But he seemed like the deer in the headlights
exactly, i was thinking the same thing. Williams should have played along and made the experience 20x better for himself. This is interesting because we will all encounter situations like this where we may be the butt end of a joke. The obvious solution is not to freeze up and act like its bothering you. Roll with the punches and play along. Great example of social dynamics...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ThunderMaverick said:
It's absolutely NOT "alpha" at all. The guy was an up and coming comedian trying to make a name for himself and Jamie Foxx, being the guy who can't respect a newcomer's time totally helps in killing any credibility that Doug Williams had. Jamie of all people should know what it's like when no one knows you from a random guy off the street and you're trying to make them laugh.

On the other hand comedians bomb all the time...but not like this. Not in front of the whole f*cking world. There's a reason for a roast; you can point out the person's flaws because they already have so much going for them.

Jamie just adds malicious insults and make sure the guy never bounces back from it.

I always think through experience and empathy you should help your fellow entertainers come up in the world because you're been a no name yourself.

I can't respect Jamie Foxx for doing what he did. An alpha move would be Jamie Foxx trying to pull that sh!t on Chris Rock or Steve Harvey.
Its a roast dude, they are all there to make fun of each other... Jamie has just as much a responsibility to make the crowd laugh as Doug Williams. He delivered on that
 

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Hullothere said:
exactly, i was thinking the same thing. Williams should have played along and made the experience 20x better for himself. This is interesting because we will all encounter situations like this where we may be the butt end of a joke. The obvious solution is not to freeze up and act like its bothering you. Roll with the punches and play along. Great example of social dynamics...
I actually encountered something like this many yrs ago. I was a groomsman in a wedding and as I was being introduced at the reception, the idiot (also a good friend) started jokingly making fun of me in front of hundreds of guests. I laughed too and as I walked past him I grabbed the mic and told him that I WOULD have the mic later. Then later, with me holding the mic, I totally razzed him.
 
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