"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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a week ago some one mentioned how to be like james bond, i did not like the post soo much as it was off the point and almost forgeting james bond is a fictinal charcter.

but recently i have realised what a good role model he is, for example you could kiss a girl to gage her intrest, this might even seem a romantic thing to do but will also make you seme easy. There is a reason why bond only ever gets with the girl at the end of the film.

james bond does not take offence to anything, hes a man and is C&F sure you can not take him too litraly but sometimes it might be good to stop and think what would james bond do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How's about, using your instinct instead of realying (sp) on someone else?
 

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this is not relying on some 1 else, this is fitting a personality, where are not trying to beomce james bond, its just that james bonds personality matches that of a DJ so we should be llike him but not copy him.

saying not to would be like saying do not be C&F be yourself.
 

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Huh. C+f doesn't make women jump in bed with you. Neither does putting on a Sean Connery accent.

C+f, and Neg-hitting, are useless. What you need is experience, to know women. Not slap a bunch of techniques down.
 

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if you use it liek a technequ and copy what people say it will go nowhere but when you make it you when you imbed it in to your pesonality then this is part of you and will among other things attract women, obviosly this is not all there is to it but it is deifntly part of the puzzle.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here's another part of the puzzle.....

Trying to understand WTF you are writing. What are my tax dollars paying for in schools nowadays? LEARN TO TYPE.

This posts has been done before. And it's boring. Wes out.
 

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you idiot you live in germany i live in england you do not pay for schools in england and apprntly you do not know your own currency because you do not work in dollars.

get it right next time, your only getting angry because you realised you have no case to support your side.
 

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Hmm. I'm being flamed by a 16 year old. I don't want this to turn into a flame war, however.....I'm IN germany. I too am from England, i said dollars because i lived in America for 4 years. Got anything to match that? didn't think so.

You write quickly, with the fluency of the artist who has nothing whatsoever to say.

Someone close this? it's turned crap.
 

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i think wes he's right, uk kid... i didn't get some sentences u wrote, 'cuz they were mispelled and plus i'm not english... when u write somemthing, make sure to spell it somehow right... i'm not talkin' about being a professional writer, but just about making it understandable to non-native talkers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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  1. Closed
  2. Been done before... a lot.
  3. This isn't even a discussion topic; it's technically a tip.
  4. We'll end this with your DV of chuckling:
Originally posted by WesCottII (emphasis added)
What are my tax dollars paying for in schools nowadays? LEARN TO TYPE.

This posts has been done before.
 
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