"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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James Dean

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I heard about this guy barely. He was supposed to be a DJ from way back in the white and black days.

What was so cool about this guy that he was so known?

I would like to see some of his movies even if they are old. Any movies to recommend?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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he doesnt have many movies, he died very young. the only one i know of is Rebel Without a Cause.

I guess he's pretty cool in it, but he's faced w/ a moral decision and chooses the goody tooshoos path, so it's kinda like a family Channel movie:down:
 

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He is probably most known for the way he died. Driving his Porsche 550 to a race he collided with a large sedan. I can't remember much more from his biography about his life, but I think the DJ title would probably fit. He bedded quite a few women.

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He also had a homosexual experience with some hotshot photographer.......
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The guy seems like a cool guy. I saw the movie " James Dean" he seemed like the guy who wouldn't hold back. He lived his own phrase "Live fast, die young and you leave a beautiful corpse" or something to that degree. He lived his own rules something not alot of people could do.
 

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1st: he wasn't a don juan at all. he was homosexual (not just an experience, he was a declared gay) and was very shy, introvert and not outgoing at all.

2nd: his only movies were "rebel without a cause" (the only one i've seen so far), "the garden of eden" (i translated the title from the italian version, i don't know what's the original name) and "the giant" (the same here too).

3rd: in rebel without a cause, he was a rebel back in those days, but today he would look like a big sissy. he gets labeled as a ticket for been drunk and for reacting to a gang of bullies (basically, what every teenager does now)
 

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he was cool,

first movie, east of eden

2nd rebel without a cause

3rd giants

iv seen all 3, my first room mate in my college was into the guy of it rubbed of me.

he had a cool persona and was introverted, but all the same cool and a dj in my opinion.

watch his attitude and see some of his candid photos,youll learn somethings.

not to sure bout the gay thing though maybe he was bi i dont know, hey they said marlon brando was gay too, i dont wana believe hollywood rumors.

i like old hollywood stars
like dean
sydney potier(spelling)
brando
steve macqueen
samuel l jackson ...etc. good dj mentors all of them.
 

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Originally posted by chondroTim
He is probably most known for the way he died. Driving his Porsche 550 to a race he collided with a large sedan. I can't remember much more from his biography about his life, but I think the DJ title would probably fit. He bedded quite a few women.
don't remember everything exactly but if not mistaken that car of his is cursed! supposedly somebody died or had an accident in that same car.
 

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http://www.snopes.com/autos/cursed/spyder.asp
Lots of "accidents" dealing with that spyder. Hey Jay-x have you seen James Dean(2001) the one with James Franco? Outta curiousity was that a hollywood upped version of James? And when was he declared Gay? I never knew, always thought he was don juan material.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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actually, it's uncertain his sexual conduct. he never admitted sleeping with anyone. anyway, people that knew him in person say that in his teenage years he was shy both with guys and girls. then, around 20 years old, he started becoming more and more aroused by males. anyway, he died that young that he could even be a virgin, for what we are concerned.

i didn't say he wasn't a don juan BECAUSE he was homosexual. i said, he wasn't a don juan AND he was homosexual. he was extremely unconfident and would have never approached someone. you can't base your suppositions on his movies... actually, he was a really attractive and charming guy, but not don juan
 

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i didn't say he wasn't a don juan BECAUSE he was homosexual. i said, he wasn't a don juan AND he was homosexual. he was extremely unconfident and would have never approached someone.
Totally....

I'm willing to say that homo's can't be DJ's and they definitely can't be alpha (maybe in jail ).

save the bs
 

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James Dean onscreen definately had DJ qualities. "Giant" is probably the best example where we see him seduce Elizabeth Taylor and basically tell all the good ol' boys to fukk off.

As for his sexuality, he was definately Bisexual , having affairs with both his costars in "Rebel Without A Cause". While a great movie, with a classic sequence inside the Grifith Observatory, it is definately not a DJ movie.


While a good looking and talented guy, what ultimately made him a DJ was his ambiguity. People never knew what to think of him. It gave him a certain amount of mystery that intrigued people. They wanted to know more.
 

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Originally posted by cinephile



While a good looking and talented guy, what ultimately made him a DJ was his ambiguity. People never knew what to think of him. It gave him a certain amount of mystery that intrigued people. They wanted to know more.


this reminds me about jim morrison... i think they were very similar in many aspects. anyway, i think this is seen as an intriguing charecteristic just in famous people... if you are like that, but you are not famous, you are likely to be considered weird, not interesting
 

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geez ...no one knew if he was bi or anything i mean we all got these info from the net or wherever or the media we cant say for sure if he was definately bi or a pufter.

,by the way i heard of other hollywood guys from the past who arnt bi, but pretend to be. bi or gay....

some how they know how to pull it off which somewhat creats attraction... some girls are intrigued by that **** .

some guys know how to pull it off dont ask men:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Totally....

I'm willing to say that homo's can't be DJ's and they definitely can't be alpha (maybe in jail ).

save the bs
Gay men can be masculine in the same way women can be masculine.

However, both are very confused.
 
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Exactly why is it important whether he is gay or not.?

Gay men can be alphas too. Afterall in the relationship one has to be dominant and the other has to be the *****.

As long as he wasn't the latter, it doesn't matter.
 
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