"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fellas, ever feel suddenly jaded? I used to be optimistic and sympathized with people. Now I just don't give a damn. I don't think I've had any traumatic experiences to turn this way. It just happened.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meh, that's logical. It makes you who you are: human.

People who are sad all the time. Are they 'real and healthy'? no, they're depressed
People who are happy all the time. Are they 'real and healthy'? no, they're either manic (debatable) or want to be found nice.

You can't thrive on just one emotion, it's the entire spectre of emotions that make us who and what we are.
 
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Straight to the point, and I think may be what's up. I've never been in this much of a rut in a long time.
 
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konmai said:
Fellas, ever feel suddenly jaded? I used to be optimistic and sympathized with people. Now I just don't give a damn. I don't think I've had any traumatic experiences to turn this way. It just happened.
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Its called, Reality. Or I hate the world. Something along those lines. You don't need to sympathize to be happy. Being a happy person is not dependent on anyone but yourself.
 
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