"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You gotta look @ their output level. Some of them expect you to be working around them all the time like you work for them. That's not right.

on the "good women"... There are "good women" who are concerned about their partner, and thoughtful.
these are important sentences.

you know why? because working fulltime outside the home and double time inside the home creates burnout.

I think only when I'm independently wealthy/retired can my output finally reflect my effort in all areas. my 110% will one day actually look like 110% because there's no job outside the home that vampires my energy chronically.

Women never should have started working unless they were like me and decided early to not have kids.

Working women do not make ideal helpmeets. The workload at home and efforts to please in the bedroom is too physically exhausting to also give 40 hours a week to strangers outside the home.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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these are important sentences.

you know why? because working fulltime outside the home and double time inside the home creates burnout.

I think only when I'm independently wealthy/retired can my output finally reflect my effort in all areas. my 110% will one day actually look like 110% because there's no job outside the home that vampires my energy chronically.

Women never should have started working unless they were like me and decided early to not have kids.

Working women do not make ideal helpmeets. The workload at home and efforts to please in the bedroom is too physically exhausting to also give 40 hours a week to strangers outside the home.
Men would be happy with a couple hrs a week overall sex time and maybe 1-2 hrs a day outside of that. It doesn’t take alot of time.
 

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Men would be happy with a couple hrs a week overall sex time and maybe 1-2 hrs a day outside of that. It doesn’t take alot of time.
no the other stuff takes more time(household chores)

I think I'm older than you mrgoodstuff and in worse physical shape.(upper 50% of people but still unsatisfactory for my standards)

Could be why I value my energy level so much.

A little bit 2 hours a day is completely normal but one of those weekend mini marathon sessions I couldn't possibly and still go into my physical job Monday morning. I detest letting people down. In my exact current situation I'm not capable.
I'm embarassed that only some backsliding beta is suitable for my energy level currently.

Its sad a woman has to show more loyalty to a physical labour job than her man.
Sickening hey?

The physical labour feminists I tried being friends with on facebook were capable by the looks of what they implied in comments, but they all had physical fitness in the top 5%.
 

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no the other stuff takes more time(household chores)

I think I'm older than you mrgoodstuff and in worse physical shape.(upper 50% of people but still unsatisfactory for my standards)

Could be why I value my energy level so much.

A little bit 2 hours a day is completely normal but one of those weekend mini marathon sessions I couldn't possibly and still go into my physical job Monday morning. I detest letting people down. In my exact current situation I'm not capable.
I'm embarassed that only some backsliding beta is suitable for my energy level currently.

Its sad a woman has to show more loyalty to a physical labour job than her man.
Sickening hey?

The physical labour feminists I tried being friends with on facebook were capable by the looks of what they implied in comments, but they all had physical fitness in the top 5%.
The 1-2 hrs a day would be time spent doing chores, getting ready for work, watching TV the usual stuff that needs to get done. A couple total hrs a week for sex stuff. Remember alot of guys are completely sexless. So a wife that cares should be able to find 1 hour out of 168 hrs in a week for sex.
 

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The 1-2 hrs a day would be time spent doing chores, getting ready for work, watching TV the usual stuff that needs to get done. A couple total hrs a week for sex stuff. Remember alot of guys are completely sexless. So a wife that cares should be able to find 1 hour out of 168 hrs in a week for sex.
oh! I thought you were writing 2 x 7 days plus a 6 hour on a weekend afternoon/evening.
20 total.

14 hours a week everybody should be able to do even into their 90's, 100's. No doubt intensity may change, but time commitment shouldn't.

I had a coworker a few decades ago say he only saw his live-in girlfriend for 1.5 hr a night before sleeping(he was too polite to itemize what time was meal, chores, sex)

He was happy, so that worked for him.
It wasn't a sexual context we were speaking of this. I think he was comparing my boyfriend life at that time with his commonlaw wife life.
Like, the marrieds versus the 'singles', you know what I mean?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she told you to get the fvck off of her, and your trying to get you some, and then you force it and somehow get it in, that would be a rape. It's the same if the shoe was on the other foot. She's trying to suck you off, and your feeling bad and you say "get the fvck off me", and she pulls a gun on you and says "your about to take this whether you want it or not", that would be rape.
Yes. It’s a double standard though because it’s not the same . No woman is gonna force me to do anything. We are bigger and a lot stronger than they are.
 

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Yes. It’s a double standard though because it’s not the same . No woman is gonna force me to do anything. We are bigger and a lot stronger than they are.
If this is the extent of your knowledge about what is recognized as rape, you should make an effort to expand on that knowledge... What is recognized as a legal term, is impacted by the term itself, but also land mark cases can adjust or add dimensions to the term... Rape is much more nuanced than most want to recognize.

Even if you don't, you will probably be fine, but prevention is the best protection.
 

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Now that's some world class victimhood.

Saying you exist BECAUSE of rape allows for a permanent excuse for pretty much everything.
 

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oh! I thought you were writing 2 x 7 days plus a 6 hour on a weekend afternoon/evening.
20 total.

14 hours a week everybody should be able to do even into their 90's, 100's. No doubt intensity may change, but time commitment shouldn't.

I had a coworker a few decades ago say he only saw his live-in girlfriend for 1.5 hr a night before sleeping(he was too polite to itemize what time was meal, chores, sex)

He was happy, so that worked for him.
It wasn't a sexual context we were speaking of this. I think he was comparing my boyfriend life at that time with his commonlaw wife life.
Like, the marrieds versus the 'singles', you know what I mean?
Yes. Married and singles is two different worlds. That the wife shouldn't have to fvck her "husband " and can do what the hell they want is a "single" viewpoint.
 

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The guy here being denied is a NFL wide receiver.
And he CANT "make" her do a darn thing. In fact we know his request us reasonable but the more he talks about it the weaker he looks ( and feels).

He can stop talking about it. He can remove time and attention from her. He can take on a mistress or leave depending. The thing about the mistress in a starved or cuck situation is now she doesn’t have to worry about that anymore. So if she has a guy she don't have to hear you crying. And if she was just starving you she still gets support while she forced you to take on a lover.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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And he CANT "make" her do a darn thing. In fact we know his request us reasonable but the more he talks about it the weaker he looks ( and feels).

He can stop talking about it. He can remove time and attention from her. He can take on a mistress or leave depending. The thing about the mistress in a starved or cuck situation is now she doesn’t have to worry about that anymore. So if she has a guy she don't have to hear you crying. And if she was just starving you she still gets support while she forced you to take on a lover.
what you wrote last month in some thread is sooooooo true.

Everything's all mixed up. People could just take care of their own spouses and everything'd be ok, ffs!!!!
 

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what you wrote last month in some thread is sooooooo true.

Everything's all mixed up. People could just take care of their own spouses and everything'd be ok, ffs!!!!
This is the world we live in. Reality is a GOOD thing. Those twisted situations make for poor mental health and a toxic view.
 
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