mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Pretty much if they ain't giving it up and they aren't helping you theres zero point of being there.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Jada Pinkett-Smith borne of maritual sex which was "non consentual"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the last captioned line at bottom of video reads that the couple divorced after a few months of marriage
Zeroooooo. Don't delay, trust your gut.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She got her baby and jetted.... It's a very normal position. Unless he's the one that broke the marriage.
Serenity
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By the time it's a relationship you've already had this talk once or it's otherwise clear that you agree on how to go about it. It's something you just need to agree on once. Written is taking it too far, that's just called trust issues.
No. Getting wet or erected isn't always a voluntary action and can occur automatically from physical stimulation without psychological desire to have sex. It is generally a good indication, but consent it is not.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's not always "trust", it might be control issues. She might've recruited you to be her "provider".
If your lady keeps bringing a controlling and masculine persona to you, eventually you will get turned off. It's hard to get hard to that bullsh1t. And it is a good sign. Listen to your c0ck. Be aware of whose presence your energy diminishes around.
EyeBRollin
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No, but if I’m sick or not feeling it I’ll tell her to get the fvck off me. I think most of us have been in situations with our girlfriend when we really weren’t up to it. She doesn’t have a “right” to dvck on demand.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If she told you to get the fvck off of her, and your trying to get you some, and then you force it and somehow get it in, that would be a rape. It's the same if the shoe was on the other foot. She's trying to suck you off, and your feeling bad and you say "get the fvck off me", and she pulls a gun on you and says "your about to take this whether you want it or not", that would be rape.
Serenity
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I have no idea what you mean, but having to get written consent for sex is ridiculous no matter how you look at it.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I heard executives at a industry assoc. meeting speaking like that at my table. Buddy was so sad when the other guys told him that's all she wanted. Never forget the sadness on his face......we were all drinking back then, so maybe he looked sadder to me because of that, I don't know.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
LOL. So she wanted a baby, and she got a cash out bonus as a result.
if cash is really what they're after, play the long game.
Stay married until he dies first, statistically. There's your committed life AND your payout.
Kotaix
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If a man ****s a woman when she says no, then it's non-consensual, period. IF she is raped or violated non-consensually, she should also leave him immediately. Any dishonor you tolerate is going to be repeated by a person who has no morals. If you don't leave then you don't have the right to complain about it later.
Marriage does not give a man the right to use his partner without consent. If you wouldn't tolerate being violated if the tables were turned then you're a hypocrite if you say that all sex in marriage is consensual.
Marriage does not give a man the right to use his partner without consent. If you wouldn't tolerate being violated if the tables were turned then you're a hypocrite if you say that all sex in marriage is consensual.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Damn. That's why they can treat a man so horribly for years and deny sex for so long... Doing the job for the cash.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
We never said anything like this in here, so you don't need to go defending anyone. You shouldn't have to force your wife to have sex. If you find that she goes a prolonged period while continuing to find excuses for not having sex with you ( say months at a time ), it means she does not LIKE you. If she does not LIKE you it would be wise to part ways.
wow, yes I guess. That thread last week reminded me of this.
Is it true that all wives and husbands end up hating or mistreating each other?
Yes, I see what you mean. This publicity is still drumming up some business for Jada et al.this is like elizabeth taylor getting married all those times no such thing as bad publicity
Georgepithyou
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How do u have non consensual sex in a marriage
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.