"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've thought she was cheating...she claims rape.

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Yeah this thread is full of dudes "dudes minimizing how ****ed up the act of rape is." Right. Believe it or not, but this girl and her lies are far more detrimental to real rape victims than anything said in this thread.
 

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You really are thick headed. Yeah so one girl lies about something and shes more detrimental to the plight of real rape victims. Many grown men not using logic and not paying attention to real world occurrences is definitely not as detrimental *rolls eyes*

Any smart person would know the actions of the few dont represent the actions of the whole group.
 

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Jaylan said:
You really are thick headed. Yeah so one girl lies about something and shes more detrimental to the plight of real rape victims. Many grown men not using logic and not paying attention to real world occurrences is definitely not as detrimental *rolls eyes*

Any smart person would know the actions of the few dont represent the actions of the whole group.
That last statement should be stamped on your forehead so you can stop saying half of sosuave members believe "insert bull" when only a few people responded. They were responding to the OP's situation while you and a couple other idiots bring up hypothetical nonsense. Rape happens and that story sounded way too suspect. Case closed she was a ho and the OP learned it the hard way.

Women lying about rape casts doubt on every person who claims it thereafter because if a chick lied to you once and another claims the same damn thing you'll be inclined to think she's lying. Unless you saw it (the real rape) negative experiences have a way of shaping your judgment, whether you'd like to acknowledge it or not your instinct will be to be cautious and get the facts before you pass judgement. There's a reason why stereotypes exist and it's no ones fault or poor logic its just people's common experiences and our natural inclination to categorize things in a meaningful way. Good luck OP I've been there before (getting played) it sucks but there is a good lesson somewhere in this that will make you a better man.
 

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Forty0ztoFreedom said:
Yeah this thread is full of dudes "dudes minimizing how ****ed up the act of rape is." Right. Believe it or not, but this girl and her lies are far more detrimental to real rape victims than anything said in this thread.
A-motherfvckin-men.

Women are the worst misogynists.
 

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Fixmylife said:
Hey guys, goldengoose was the most right here.
Most of the time I am


Fixmylife said:
I took care, and just got hurt even more. She was taking advantage of me. I'm free and broke it off.
It looked like that to me. stay away from her now
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Asasione said:
That last statement should be stamped on your forehead so you can stop saying half of sosuave members believe "insert bull" when only a few people responded. They were responding to the OP's situation while you and a couple other idiots bring up hypothetical nonsense. Rape happens and that story sounded way too suspect. Case closed she was a ho and the OP learned it the hard way.

Women lying about rape casts doubt on every person who claims it thereafter because if a chick lied to you once and another claims the same damn thing you'll be inclined to think she's lying. Unless you saw it (the real rape) negative experiences have a way of shaping your judgment, whether you'd like to acknowledge it or not your instinct will be to be cautious and get the facts before you pass judgement. There's a reason why stereotypes exist and it's no ones fault or poor logic its just people's common experiences and our natural inclination to categorize things in a meaningful way. Good luck OP I've been there before (getting played) it sucks but there is a good lesson somewhere in this that will make you a better man.

Wow you must be daft. Where did I say half of all members. I was stating specifically in this thread. Learn to follow what I type. And no they were not just referring to the OP. If you look at some of the responses they were jumping on the typical bandwagon that will always lie about this crap while overlooking what happens in reality.

And yeah some dumb lying girl may cast doubt, but I expect mature smart men to know better than to paint a whole group with the small brush that paints a minute few. Gimme a break.

KarmaSutra said:
A-motherfvckin-men.

Women are the worst misogynists.
riiiiight
 

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Jaylan said:
Dude read through the thread and tell me that half the dudes here are not of the thought that there are more women who lie about rape than there are those who are actually raped.

Read the thread dude

This thread is done. The chick was a proven liar. The smart guys saw it a mile away.

You weren't even a member here when this thread started. You started posting after it was done. So why keep it going?

You would be like Tight Eyes falling for her lies and her phony story.

Yes it is a serious issue. There isnt one guy on this thread that said it wasnt. When a girl makes it all up just to cover her cheating tracks that is even more serious and what the smart guys were pointing out.

She was a liar. When you can see all the lies she told you can see it for what it is because it never happened. It is serious because she is a nutcase.

You should read the thread better.

I'm surprise you didnt advise him to stay with her like you advised that other guy to get involved with another girl with mental problems.



TyTe`EyEz said:
What was I wrong about, jackass? I succeeded in what I intended to do.

Don't respond to me if you're going to do it in 15 separate sentences, douchebag.

Yes you did succeed in looking like a jackass on here I agree with you about that. Was that your intentions to do that?

You counted each line? Guess you were too interested in what I wrote...weird.

You are wrong Tight Eyes. There were only 11 separate lines. There were 15 total lines.

You're still looking through closed eyes. That is why you can't see reality Tight Eyes. Next time don't believe a chick who lies about a serious matter just to cover her cheating tracks.
 
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Yes you did succeed in looking like a jackass on here I agree with you about that. Was that your intentions to do that?

You counted each line? Guess you were too interested in what I wrote...weird.

You are wrong Tight Eyes. There were only 11 separate lines. There were 15 total lines.

You're still looking through closed eyes. That is why you can't see reality Tight Eyes. Next time don't believe a chick who lies about a serious matter just to cover her cheating tracks.

You obviously don't see why I took the position of devil's advocate in this thread. Whatever, that's ok. I made the point I was trying to make. I apologize for resorting to name calling. It was uncalled for.
 

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Jaylan said:
Any smart person would know the actions of the few dont represent the actions of the whole group.
Yeah, like a group of guys who are perfectly willing to believe every-fvcking-word a chick tells them because she knows he's desperate enough to want to believe her bullsh!t.

The actions of those few desperate clingers are enough to taint the pool.

You make it a point to save her from herself. The last thing you'll see is her smiling face as you drown in her misery.
 
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Yeah, like a group of guys who are perfectly willing to believe every-fvcking-word a chick tells them because she knows he's desperate enough to want to believe her bullsh!t.

The actions of those few desperate clingers are enough to taint the pool.

You make it a point to save her from herself. The last thing you'll see is her smiling face as you drown in her misery.

Nobody said anything of the sort. Our position was that he should look into what happened before he reacts in haste. He shouldn't take what a couple of strangers on the internet have to say as gospel. He should delve into the situation and see what really happened. Don't necessarily believe what she says, but don't automatically discredit it, either. I don't know how this argument turned into what it did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Rape is serious. So serious in fact that when uttered it cast a pall on what ever came before it. Do not think that women do not know this. Do not believe people will not take advantage of this. Some people are scumbags. MOST are not. You have to look at the whole picture. I've delt with three women who have told me of rape. 1 went to the police. The other two were trying to elect sympathy or extract themselves from the situation by making an appeal to the protector in men.

As a man I would despise any male who rapes a woman and would not want him breathing the same air as me. I fell out with a good friend because he roofied a chic and tried to get me to go along with it. I ended up taking her home and basically saving her from a bad situation. Does that make me a captain save a ho? No. (although she was a bit of a slut) its just intrinsic to have a complete hatred of that sort of male (I can't call that sort of person a man). But just as much as I hate a rapist, I hate a woman who would use that as a tool in getting what she wants and I'm not naive enough to think that it can't happen. Here is some light reading for the guys who feel that women won't use rape claims to their advantage.

http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/
 

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Any advice on how to move on after all the **** she did to me? Do I just focus on myself, or go out and try to have sex with girls? I mean, there are at least a few lined up, but do women tend to avoid men they are interested in after a bad breakup?
 

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Any advice on how to move on after all the **** she did to me?
Let's get one goddamned thing straight. Women don't do anything to us WE don't allow them to do. You first need to accept responsibility for all of the drama you chewed on.

Then you can learn a life lesson from it, then take your next step forward.

Do I just focus on myself, or go out and try to have sex with girls? I mean, there are at least a few lined up, but do women tend to avoid men they are interested in after a bad breakup?
New slices of pie will not make your empty pie shell whole again.

The last fvcking thing you need right now is more chick drama. Which, in your current pissed-off state, is the worst thing.

Learn to heal from this sh!t first. Then love yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rape is serious. So serious in fact that when uttered it cast a pall on what ever came before it. Do not think that women do not know this. Do not believe people will not take advantage of this. Some people are scumbags. MOST are not. You have to look at the whole picture. I've delt with three women who have told me of rape. 1 went to the police. The other two were trying to elect sympathy or extract themselves from the situation by making an appeal to the protector in men.

As a man I would despise any male who rapes a woman and would not want him breathing the same air as me. I fell out with a good friend because he roofied a chic and tried to get me to go along with it. I ended up taking her home and basically saving her from a bad situation. Does that make me a captain save a ho? No. (although she was a bit of a slut) its just intrinsic to have a complete hatred of that sort of male (I can't call that sort of person a man). But just as much as I hate a rapist, I hate a woman who would use that as a tool in getting what she wants and I'm not naive enough to think that it can't happen. Here is some light reading for the guys who feel that women won't use rape claims to their advantage.
 

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How long until she claims you raped her?

In North America any girl who 'decides' to cry rape is automatically presumed innocent by the legion of white knights. In 90% of cases you will walk away in cuffs based on her word alone be it rape, assault, racism, threats. If she is mad at you, she has the law on her side. This is what you are up against if you date in North America. Women are encouraged in university to claim rape, I recall the LGBT wing of my hometown's university having a poster on the wall that said "If a man doesn't ask, he raped you" with lots of pamphlets about males raping women and what to do about it. Every woman you meet out there was 'raped' by a previous boyfriend and has the potential to be 'raped' by you. Did you know that its possible to 'rape' your wife? North American women today don't care about the guy's lives they ruin, its all a game to them. How does it feel to be a pawn?


And you guys wonder why men want to leave the country.

I hope you are all aware that unwanted sexual advances (failed GAME) can be considered 'sexual harassment' if she doesn't like you. In the USA women are given a loaded gun AND a license to kill.
 
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San Jose California said:
lol, bs. Get realistic. You're mad about something.
^This.

PS - This thread needs to die lol. Not like I am helping though.
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

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