I've met THE prude-est girl in the UK

[mikeyb]

Seriously. No kidding.

Here's the story. This girl's Chinese, HB7, 24yo, with a great body, we'll call her Sue. We met through a friend at a lecture. I didn't like her very much at first, but after a while we started getting along.

Eager to work on my kino (which I tend not to be very good at), I tried all sorts of stuff on her, with a positive response. She was sending me plenty of signs that she was interested, but mostly I took blushing n smiling every time I touched her neck to be a very good sign .

Later that same day, she tells me that she's only had one boyfriend, that they were together for 2 years, never "did" anything, and that everyone thought they were just friends. (I still don't know whether "did" refers to just sex or kissing too, but apparently it's both :S).

Since things were going so well, I decide to go in for a kiss after a while, but she pulls away and says "no". I try and play it off like it was nothing, she leaves shortly after, and I figure I just gauged her interest level wrong. No harm done, I didn't like her that much anyway.

She calls me a couple days later, saying that she liked me and that she was glad I tried to kiss her but that she was very "conservative". So at this point, I'm thinking: "no, you've had your chance. NEXT".

We still met in lectures, but I didn't kino her or flirt with her anymore. Obviously, I was still nice to her (minus the occasional neg ). Here's where the strange part comes in. She started to initiate and even to up the kino! We had lunch at my place yesterday, and she picked a play fight with me and came up with all sorts of other ways to touch me.

However, she still blushes when anyone, me included, says the word "sex" or anything related, can't stand to hear a single swear word, has never worn a skirt shorter than knee length, and has yet to show any cleavage. I know for a fact that she's a virgin, and I'm 90% sure that she's never kissed a guy in her life either. Oh yeah, and did I mention she's 24?

(On a side note I know she's curious about sex, because she tends to look away during violent scenes in movies or anything where blood shows, but she seems to look particularly glued to the screen during sex scenes.)

So there you have it. The prude-est girl in the UK.

 

[ready123]

haha, don't NEXT her dude, she didn't do anything wrong. she's not being prude to play to hard to get, she just is because her loser ex was too scared to do anything

this is where it gets fun. she's curious. you now have to opportunity to show her how awesome sex can be. lead her toward the experience but don't be an ******* about it. COMMUNICATE with her - get her comfortable talkign about sex and all the things that make her blush, get her to enjoy making out with you, give her her first orgasm, I swear she'll love you for it

just remember to be gentle and slow and sensitive toward how she's feeling. if you try to force your **** in her right away, you'll probably turn her into a lesbian. focus on making her feel good instead of trying to bust a nut

 

[ChocolateVanilla]

She's "Chinese", that's all you needed to say. Conservative asian girls are usually very prude everywhere and were raised that way. It's tough to really get anything out of them, let alone sex.

 

[T-Roy]

She's "Chinese", that's all you needed to say. Conservative asian girls are usually very prude everywhere and were raised that way. It's tough to really get anything out of them, let alone sex.

That's dumb. That's like saying all Canadians say 'Eh'.

 

[3countriesPlan]

for some reason I thought you were joking and had banged some chav in a red telephone booth

 

[j0n024]

That's dumb. That's like saying all Canadians say 'Eh'.

lol, but I dont think it's really that dumb. I mean if you go over there the "New generation" of kids there which I mean 19+ and lower are a lot more open about relationships nowadays, I mean they have a damn walkway where singles go to meet each other! Now the older women came up being conservative because that is how they were taught, but what's funny is how much porn is floating around over there! I will not lie I went for maybe a week and in every store(Cant read Jap) you could find a book or dvd about cartoon porn! But the best part about it is most of the girls are wearing that ohh soo sexy uniform! Too bad I couldnt understand them

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Doin dirt is a daily chore. And in the night time I train your best girl into a wh@re.

XXX

 

[mikeyb]

haha, don't NEXT her dude, she didn't do anything wrong. she's not being prude to play to hard to get, she just is because her loser ex was too scared to do anything

this is where it gets fun. she's curious. you now have to opportunity to show her how awesome sex can be. lead her toward the experience but don't be an ******* about it. COMMUNICATE with her - get her comfortable talkign about sex and all the things that make her blush, get her to enjoy making out with you, give her her first orgasm, I swear she'll love you for it

just remember to be gentle and slow and sensitive toward how she's feeling. if you try to force your **** in her right away, you'll probably turn her into a lesbian. focus on making her feel good instead of trying to bust a nut

My thoughts exactly...minus the lesbian thing.

 

[mikeyb]

for some reason I thought you were joking and had banged some chav in a red telephone booth

ROTFL

Might end up doing just that with this girl, you never know... :rockon:

 

[mikeyb]

She's "Chinese", that's all you needed to say. Conservative asian girls are usually very prude everywhere and were raised that way. It's tough to really get anything out of them, let alone sex.

You're right to say she was raised to be a complete prude, but there's plenty of room for change...sure, sex by the third date is out of the question, let alone earlier. But as the other guy said, patience might do it.

 

[Randallpink83]

lol, but I dont think it's really that dumb. I mean if you go over there the "New generation" of kids there which I mean 19+ and lower are a lot more open about relationships nowadays, I mean they have a damn walkway where singles go to meet each other! Now the older women came up being conservative because that is how they were taught, but what's funny is how much porn is floating around over there! I will not lie I went for maybe a week and in every store(Cant read Jap) you could find a book or dvd about cartoon porn! But the best part about it is most of the girls are wearing that ohh soo sexy uniform! Too bad I couldnt understand them

dude... Japan and China are VERY different when it comes to sex.

Japan, is overly sexual. They are open about it, just like you said.

China, VERY conservative. I dont think they even sell porn, sex toys stuff like that in china.

...however you will find conservative and free people in each country.

 

[Effington]

Sounds pretty damn prude to me.

 

[Mr Autobahn]

China, VERY conservative. I dont think they even sell porn, sex toys stuff like that in china.

They probably execute those freaks in China. In fact, China executes more people than anywhere in the world...

 

[mikeyb]

They probably execute those freaks in China. In fact, China executes more people than anywhere in the world...

Only difference is that over there they call it population control...:trouble:

 

[mikeyb]

Follow-up:

She came over tonight and we cuddled a while, and then I kissed her. Clearly, she'd never kissed a guy before, but she must have called a friend or something when I left the room later because an hour later when I tried again she was much much better.

@ready123: that's one down, two to go .

 

[Rhoto]

You never know, she might be a freak.

Experience tells me, she probably is.