"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've made my decision on the car I want, whatcha think?

WillieSacks

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http://www.autotrader.com/fyc/vdp.j...&engine=&fuel=&doors=&style_flag=1&cardist=19


How much you think I can get it for. The bluebook for this car with the mileage it has n fair condition is 17,300. I'm going through my bank to get the loan. How much do you think I can haggle this guy for. Yeah, I test drove the charger and that muthafukka was way too big and the dealer tried the bait and switch, the ad was fro 14900 but all the add ons and the ttl made it 20,200 but I like this one moe even with the mileage, comments...


continuing from this post right here.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113591&highlight=williesacks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not a bad car for a kid from Mesa, Arizona!
 

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it's a nice car on the inside....lots of fancy options....

HOWEVER;

On new years eve of 2005, me and another guy killed a bran spanking new one (9000km on it)......good thing it was rental.
Honestly we warn't beating on it that hard.....just basic doughnuts in an empty snowed in parking lot. I expected it to last longer then that.....(transmision died....and then it wouldn't even start)

other then that it was fun to drive it.....
 

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Here is something very helpful:
Get one of your relatives/someone you know good to call that person and offer 16k$ a day later get someone else you know to call and offer 15k$
3 days later get another person to call and offer 14.5k$.
3 days after that call and offer how much you would offer for it-He most likely think you are a dumbass and sell it to you fast ~_0.

You got the idea, change it as you like.
 

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You said that you make $40k/year. It should be easy to save your money and pay cash for your car if you start out with something less expensive. When you have to deal with a finance company and a loan, then you don't have the power of a cash buyer. If you would set your sights on cars that are about half that price after saving for a while, you can start offering 50-70% of asking prices in cash. People who really want to sell a car have a hard time refusing a stack of green bills, even if it is less than their asking price. Even professional car dealers will make incredible price concessions to move a car they have had in inventory for 2-3 months.

Most people do what you are doing; they finance as much of a car as they can afford as soon as they get a good job. But then again, most people will spend their lives living paycheck to paycheck. I would encourage you to be different, especially if you want your financial picture to progress. Delay gratification for now, and then deal very shrewdly within your means. This method will take you farther in the long run.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I AGREE ^

i make 60k a year, and i drive a NEON.

when i bought my mom a car (about 7 years ago) you should have seen the guys face when i droped 8 grand in cash on the table.....I love the way he looked up .:up: Unfotionaly i can't aford it more often.
 

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Its a nice car but for the money i would go for something classier like an RX7 or a G35. And i agree with bible belt
 

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Yeah, what he said. Get something that can pull the ladies. Not look like a grandpa.
 

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wolf116 said:
Yeah, what he said. Get something that can pull the ladies. Not look like a grandpa.


BMW X5, Porsche Cayenne, 2000 Mercedes-Benz w220 s430 , 2000-02 BMW 540i, Infiniti G35


ALL THESE CARs can be had for about the same money as that car..albiet a higher mileage., but they are way more status than nissan maxima and look 100 times better ..

Impress them ladies !

And buy something you like peace.
 
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Wait....


when you guys say you bought a car cash... you actually pay in dollar bills?

I gave the man an $8,000 check.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheNewGuy said:
Wait....


when you guys say you bought a car cash... you actually pay in dollar bills?

I gave the man an $8,000 check.
Well, a check is nice too, but it doesn't have the same effect as a stack of $100 bills. I spent ALOT of time is sales, if you want to negotiate for something, drop a good stack of bills on the table, and always start low.


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I say go German. I have had 3 BMWs and I love them. People underestimate how cheap they are. I say spend $10-12k, get an e36 M3, pay off your insurance, and have some money to play with.
 

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MisterNigma said:
Well, a check is nice too, but it doesn't have the same effect as a stack of $100 bills. I spent ALOT of time is sales, if you want to negotiate for something, drop a good stack of bills on the table, and always start low.


-E.Nigma
Eh, live and learn.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You said that you make $40k/year. It should be easy to save your money and pay cash for your car if you start out with something less expensive. When you have to deal with a finance company and a loan, then you don't have the power of a cash buyer. If you would set your sights on cars that are about half that price after saving for a while, you can start offering 50-70% of asking prices in cash. People who really want to sell a car have a hard time refusing a stack of green bills, even if it is less than their asking price. Even professional car dealers will make incredible price concessions to move a car they have had in inventory for 2-3 months.

Most people do what you are doing; they finance as much of a car as they can afford as soon as they get a good job. But then again, most people will spend their lives living paycheck to paycheck. I would encourage you to be different, especially if you want your financial picture to progress. Delay gratification for now, and then deal very shrewdly within your means. This method will take you farther in the long run.
Couldn't disagree with you more bible belt. The last thing you wanna do is offload all your cash into a car. Finance & put down less as possible. Guys with money create wealth by using OTHER peoples money. The old tale of if you can't pay cash for it you shouldnt buy it thinking is outdated & proven a bad option. Stack your chips.
 

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What are you doing with your cash? If you can make a greater return on it than the interest on the car loan, then yes, it is wiser to borrow at a low rate and get a high rate on an investment of that money. But according to bankrate.com, car loans are averaging about 7 percent, and fixed-return investments are averaging less than 5 percent.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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