“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've just got myself a new girlfriend, but I REALLY need help

BannedGod

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Think I'm a wuss for what I'm about to ask, I don't give a sh!t, I just need some tips on two situations

Anyways we have been dating for five days (met her the same day), and yes, I'm starting to fall with her and I feel I could have a LTR with her, but there's two slight problems.

1) She loves me WAY more than I do (I don't even love her yet, I just really like her, but like I said, I'm starting to like her more and more).
2) She already wants to have sex, but I'm not the kind of guy that can have sex with a girl I'm dating if I don't love her a lot (hence the "wuss" part). So far we went to third base but she stopped me before she reached orgasm, and stopped before I did, and when I got back home, that's when I realized I'm not ready yet.

And yes, I am attracted by her. She has an amazing face and a nice body, so that's not really a problem...

Anyways, any help would be appreciated :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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resilient

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5 days and you're two already falling in love??? Are you joking me?

How old are both of you?

In any case, sloooooow down the snowball. If you want to have a healthy LTR take it slow, be patient and get to the know the person - spread out over many diverse dates. Don't rush to get the fastest orgasm.

Seeing other women on the side will kill your neediness. Being less available and more of a challenge will help keep her interested in you in the long run.
 

BannedGod

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resilient said:
5 days and you're two already falling in love??? Are you joking me?

How old are both of you?

In any case, sloooooow down the snowball. If you want to have a healthy LTR take it slow, be patient and get to the know the person - spread out over many diverse dates. Don't rush to get the fastest orgasm.

Seeing other women on the side will kill your neediness. Being less available and more of a challenge will help keep her interested in you in the long run.
Well she said she's in love with me... Like she never felt like this with anyone else. However, I'm not... She is just growing on me more and more (sorry if I didn't use the right words)

we are both 18
 

Morphiex

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at age 18 youl fall in love with annyone with a nice bod.... o_O

but ass someone said just slow down alittle ... if you care forr her , if not then have sex a few times and live on....

but slow down , you dont have to tell her that you love her yet , cuz its been only 5 days lol , take it slow get to know each other and chill , enjoy life.... 18 -25 is the best years of your life spend them wisely....
 

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Slow down, and don't be predictable. Go a day here and there without talking to her at all. Let her be the one rambling on about how much she misses you and thinks about you when you are away. Be careful in revealing any feelings for her at all. Never show a woman all your cards. Try to remain a mystery for as long as you can.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jack McCrack

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Bible Belt said it nicely.

Put on a poker face for her.
 
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