Alright, I met this girl, Julie, a few days ago. We were having a surprise b-day party for a good friend of mine and she was one of the organizers. The party was last night at his appartment.
There is one aspect of my game that I pride myself on: qualifying. One the main ways I do this is by busting a targets balls for anything. I point out anything I can make fun of them for while keeping myself as the prize. By pointing out things in a fun and joking manner, I can keep them qualifying themselves to me.
And in some of the funner cases, when I know a girl can take it, I actually throw funny insults at them.
Now last night, I decided to game Julie. I had already done the preliminaries stuff the first time I met her (she was comfortable enough around me), so I figured I'd start off busting her balls from the start.
Julie, on the other hand, had other plans. One thing I'd wish I know about her beforehand is that she is the best person in the world when it comes to comebacks. From the start, she turn things around on me and by the end of the night, She had completely ruined me at my own game. There were points where I was litterally speachless. I couldn't think of a comeback for what she'd said. She was singling me out all night.
But damn, I laughed a lot and had a lot of fun, and she did too. And one time lol, we were arguing about something and she said "Do you want to take this outside?"
I agreed thinking that she was just kidding, but a few minutes later, we were at the front of the appartment wrestling on the floor (great kino, btw).
Later, while I was watching a friend play guitar hero, she jumped on my lap randomly and hugged me while someone took a picture.
So after a full night of flirting and fun. some friends and I drove her home.
The next day. she called my friends house (i'd slept over and she knew I was there) And she ended up asking me if I wanted to go see house bunny. Since that's a really gay movie, I said no way.
like 10 minutes Later, I decided to call her back and ask her if she wanted to see a different movie, but then she said she couldn't 'cause she had to go visit her aunt.
(a little wtf moment)
My friend told julie that we were leaving his house at six (I was going home, and he was visiting his gf). She called again at around 5:00 and said that she didn't want to visit her aunts house and asked if he wanted to go do something, but since he already had plans, he said no.
Anyway, on my way home, I was texting her and playing around teasing her saying that she totally had a crush on me and all that.
It was all going good until she said something that I totally didn't expect;
"I kinda have a bf lol"
I was really not expecting that at all 'cause of all the signs pointed to her liking me.
I thought fast and replied "Does he know you have a crush on me?"
But I was pretty upset (I said "damn it" as I closed my cell phone lol) because this girl could really have potential if she wasn't taken.
The whole bf thing seemed to come out of the blue. What do you guys think about all this?
UPDATE: I just asked my friend if she has a bf, and he said he's pretty sure she doesn't so... yeah... That's weird. Anyways, I'm dropping this girl, but I still wanna hear what you guys have to say about all this. Any idea what could have gone wrong?
There is one aspect of my game that I pride myself on: qualifying. One the main ways I do this is by busting a targets balls for anything. I point out anything I can make fun of them for while keeping myself as the prize. By pointing out things in a fun and joking manner, I can keep them qualifying themselves to me.
And in some of the funner cases, when I know a girl can take it, I actually throw funny insults at them.
Now last night, I decided to game Julie. I had already done the preliminaries stuff the first time I met her (she was comfortable enough around me), so I figured I'd start off busting her balls from the start.
Julie, on the other hand, had other plans. One thing I'd wish I know about her beforehand is that she is the best person in the world when it comes to comebacks. From the start, she turn things around on me and by the end of the night, She had completely ruined me at my own game. There were points where I was litterally speachless. I couldn't think of a comeback for what she'd said. She was singling me out all night.
But damn, I laughed a lot and had a lot of fun, and she did too. And one time lol, we were arguing about something and she said "Do you want to take this outside?"
I agreed thinking that she was just kidding, but a few minutes later, we were at the front of the appartment wrestling on the floor (great kino, btw).
Later, while I was watching a friend play guitar hero, she jumped on my lap randomly and hugged me while someone took a picture.
So after a full night of flirting and fun. some friends and I drove her home.
The next day. she called my friends house (i'd slept over and she knew I was there) And she ended up asking me if I wanted to go see house bunny. Since that's a really gay movie, I said no way.
like 10 minutes Later, I decided to call her back and ask her if she wanted to see a different movie, but then she said she couldn't 'cause she had to go visit her aunt.
(a little wtf moment)
My friend told julie that we were leaving his house at six (I was going home, and he was visiting his gf). She called again at around 5:00 and said that she didn't want to visit her aunts house and asked if he wanted to go do something, but since he already had plans, he said no.
Anyway, on my way home, I was texting her and playing around teasing her saying that she totally had a crush on me and all that.
It was all going good until she said something that I totally didn't expect;
"I kinda have a bf lol"
I was really not expecting that at all 'cause of all the signs pointed to her liking me.
I thought fast and replied "Does he know you have a crush on me?"
But I was pretty upset (I said "damn it" as I closed my cell phone lol) because this girl could really have potential if she wasn't taken.
The whole bf thing seemed to come out of the blue. What do you guys think about all this?
UPDATE: I just asked my friend if she has a bf, and he said he's pretty sure she doesn't so... yeah... That's weird. Anyways, I'm dropping this girl, but I still wanna hear what you guys have to say about all this. Any idea what could have gone wrong?