"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've invited a girl over - anyone got any advice/tips?

dav27

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Hey people, as the title says i've invited a girl over to my place. Now i'm not completely clueless (i've improved a lot since watching Tim's RSD videos - i can't recommend them enough), however this is the first time i would have had a girl over like this. If anyone's got any advice on things to do/not to do that'd be helpful. I wouldn't wanna be kicking myself the day after for not thinking of something basic.

I know this is a pretty general question but even answers like 'watch a movie' will do.

Ps. I'm already aware to be relaxed and have fun :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Evolve

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Clean house, bathroom, have food, Get a few drinks in etc. Focus on the moment, your aim is to enjoy YOURSELF.

She is attracted to you wants you, thats why she is coming over. Your job is not to impress her but too find out what she has to offer you and is she worth your time.
 

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Remember: cat strings theory. Don't act like you have too much storage ready to release... also remember not to act like it is Bob that is coming over.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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What kind of items do you have in your house for entertainment?
 

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If you have a really strong frame and already have some rapport happening between you two, this is what I do for every girl that I let come over (Even the ones I don't want to go any further with).

As soon as they are at your door let them in, turn around and put your hand behind your back as if for them to grab it. Grab their hand and pull them along and playfully give them a tour of your 'great mansion,' ending with the most magnificent room of all....Yours!

I love this, initiates kino and makes the mood instantly playful and fun! Most girls will LOVE it.

Show her a few rooms she can't go in no MATTER WHAT! (Could even do it to yours if you want), and it will make it mysterious and fun. I always tell girls they can NEVER look in my wardrobe and if they do I'll have to KILL them! Most of them end up trying to snoop in there it is quite the laugh.

Make sure your room and bathroom is tidy, and be hospitable. Invite them into the kitchen and show them the array of drinks you have on tap. Put some ice in their too.

Make everything you do is fun and you can literally do nothing but walk around your house and play around.

Good luck :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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