"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i've had it with her. i broke up wit her

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I don't know many of you, but i was teaching my gf for a course Her final exam is next wednesday, and today she came over and i was teach her.

A few times before, she acted very mature, selfish and unrateful when i was teach her. example, if i'm teach her she be play around or talk, hence not paying attention. if there's anything she seem to figure out i try to teach her, she gets mad , and never gives me the pen. if i'm teac her and she doesn't understand, is very *****y and anrgy, by tossing the paper away


Now this morning, the same ting happens. She was lieing on my bed while i made 3 pages for her. So i called her to demonstrate what i wrote. she says in her *****y , this doesn't make sense and to change stuff i wrote (, she's an idiot compared to me). Then i show her an example i did and she's like 'how can i under stand an when u didn't show me what do'.
I flipped because i was going to show her the example.


So i tore up all the notes, broke the pen and told her that 'i've had it with this @#%$, i'm break up with'. So i just dropped her home .


I'm still very pissed. She tinks i over reacted and that she did nothing wrong (although i warned her about her attitude).


Was i right to do this? :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, you lost your cool.

btw, "she's an idiot compared to me"? Why are you going out with her then?
 
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I'm not so sure whether tutoring your "girlfriend" is such a good thing to do anyways.

To me it kinda sounded like she is using you for some cheap academic help.

The girl I am currently dating sometimes has trouble in her courses at college, too. But the last thing I would do is help her with her homework! Although her material is quite simple compared to the stuff I'm usually dealing with, I usually (jokingly) pretend not to have a clue or I just say that I don't have time (which is absolutely true, anyways).

I just tell her she'll have to find herself some nerdy AFC person to explain it to her. I know I have no competition to fear from those guys and my lady knows that too. If those poor chumps let themselves get used by a goodlooking girl, then so be it.

When I'm spending time with my girl, I want it to be quality time. When I'm teaching people, I make sure they learn something, but I will push them hard to get there. No need to create that kind of mood/situation with a girl you're interested in.

Mister101
 
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No offense, but the way you write, you're the one who needs a tutor.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let me see if I understand this correctly:

(, she's an idiot compared to me).

1. your the one doing all of her work for her

2. she sits and pretends not to undertand

3. she tells you to re-write some of the shyt cause she doesn't like how it looks while she still pretends not to understand.

4. your the one who is losing his cool...not her.

5. she plays the famale helpless game and got you to waste your time teaching and doing her work for her....

and I could list a bunch of points

But my question is:

Who is the real idiot here

It doesn't look to me like it's really her at all.

Can you say:

SUCKA!!! CAPTAIN SAVE A HO!
 
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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me see if I understand this correctly:

1. your the one doing all of her work for her

2. she sits and pretends not to undertand

3. she tells you to re-write some of the shyt cause she doesn't like how it looks while she still pretends not to understand.

4. your the one who is losing his cool...not her.

5. she plays the female helpless game and got you to waste your time teaching and doing her work for her....
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PLAYER_SUPREME!

:DStop telling the men our girl games or we'll NEVER get our homework done! :D

Player says it true. She's using you to get her stuff done. She screwed up her own game my not acting more grateful and attentive towards you. Playing like you're constantly stupid takes a little more skill than she has at this time.

You did the right thing by breaking up with her. If she'll use you for this, she'll keep using you for everything, slowly making you her personal slave. NEEEEEEEXT!
 
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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me see if I understand this correctly:

1. your the one doing all of her work for her

2. she sits and pretends not to undertand

3. she tells you to re-write some of the shyt cause she doesn't like how it looks while she still pretends not to understand.

4. your the one who is losing his cool...not her.

5. she plays the female helpless game and got you to waste your time teaching and doing her work for her....
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PLAYER_SUPREME!

:DStop telling the men our girl games or we'll NEVER get our homework done! :D

Player says it true. She's using you to get her stuff done. She screwed up her own game my not acting more grateful and attentive towards you. Playing like you're constantly stupid takes a little more skill than she has at this time. I was fat & ugly in high school and even I could get guys to do my homework!

You did the right thing by breaking up with her. If she'll use you for this, she'll keep using you for everything, slowly making you her personal slave. NEEEEEEEXT!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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