"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ive had it...something has to give

JayCamx23

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:cuss: ok tonight i was planning on going for some new chicks number at work. its been in the back of my head all week. i wasnt obsessive over her, i just knew that i wanted to make some moves on her.

well, i didnt, and i am so fvcken pissed right now. nothing bad happened, i didnt fvck up...but i didnt make any moves. we talked a little, like less than a minute a few times. i tried increasing my value by talking with almost all of the other girls there while she was present. but in the end, i made no moves. this CANT go on. ive gotta do something. im not gonna make an excuse here, but it doesnt help when one of your eyes is bloodshot because of my contact lense. i really didnt wanna make eye contact with anyone. i was told by like 4 or 5 of my co-workers that i look high.

i have to start making moves. thats the bottom line. the good thing is that summer vacation starts the 21st. one of my close pals broke up with his gf/fvck buddy last month, and hes just as pumped up as i am. only problem is he doesnt have a car. hes had his license since february too. i really hope he has one by then. id be going to the club tomorrow night if he had a car. pretty much all of my friends besides him are waayy too laid back to go to clubs. all they wanna do is relax. its cool, but you gotta go for babes sometimes.

my pal and i are gonna go to school in our bathing suits and possibly barefoot, and head straight to the beach on the last day of school, which we get out at 11. we gonna go to the beach, the club as often as we can. also, there is a mini golf course the town over, and it is a goldmine for chicks on hot summer nights. im gonna do some form of a bootcamp this summer to get me really going THERE ARE NO EXCUSES THIS SUMMER!!! just go balls to da walls with every chick i lock eyes with...im sooo pumped up. its GAMETIME!!!...who's with me?!?!?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikRetsam

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Fantastic?
 

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Whoah. You just pumped yourself up by writing that. I don't know how let that chick go from work. I like your style. I think your my twin.
 

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Lol @ Lik. At least you're pumped, but judging from the time on your post, you won't be this excited by tomorrow morning. =(
 
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