"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've had a sudden interest in survivalism sneak up on me.

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I read Neil Straus's book, Emergency, a few months ago, and thought that it was pretty interesting.

Little did I know that that book planted the seeds for this whole "survivalist" thing.

The more I read this website and other blogs, the more that seed starts to grow.

I'm not sure if it's a masculine need to want to be able to survive on my own in the wilderness, or the doom and gloom that everyone seems to be predicting. Or a combination of both.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To me, food production is survivalism. Aquaponics is an interest of mine, where you use fish to grow food. Then you make a worm farm to feed the fish. Worms eat any organic matter. So you could literally turn sh!t into a constant supply of food. All you'd need is some small amount of energy to move water to irrigate the plants and aerate the fish at the same time. It could be wind, solar, waterwheel, or even a beast of burden, hell maybe even a human of burden.

I think backyard gardening is going to be big in the next few years. Unemployed people have the time, and food raised yourself should always be cheaper and better than what you can buy. A garden is perfect for someone with little money and no job, which right now includes more than half of the US.
 

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I got interested in survivalism after watching Man vs Wild. That guy is the sh!t when it comes to getting out alive.
 

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Konada said:
I got interested in survivalism after watching Man vs Wild. That guy is the sh!t when it comes to getting out alive.
There comes a point in every episode where he munches on snakes/scorpions/beetles/bugs/piss and etc. and I cringe when he bites into it, sometimes when it is living :/. But yeah he is awesome.
 

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ArcBound said:
There comes a point in every episode where he munches on snakes/scorpions/beetles/bugs/piss and etc. and I cringe when he bites into it, sometimes when it is living :/. But yeah he is awesome.
He has balls of a whole other world.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It would be NUTS to risk that sort of thing for real. HE has a chopper and a hospital in the wings, if he gets sick or hurt. When it's for real, you MUST be a LOT less of a risk taker, unless you are genuinely near death from starvation or some other sort of time-pressed need. Then you have nothing to lose by catching some gut parasite, exosing self to mosquitoes, bitting flies, etc. At the least, you MUST cook all such things WELL DONE. Insects, with legs, wings and heads removed, roasted until "crunchy", then broken into a powder between your palms and added to soups/stews, are normally quite easy to capture/process and add a lot of protein to root/bark stew. :) Green veggies do very little for you but fill your stomach, nutrition wise.
 
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