"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, here's the 411. I've gotta admit, I live in a crappy apartment (I mean apartments in general, I actually live in a nice one), and I can't wait till I move to a house. Anyways, so I was traveling home after my awesome singing lessons, and I happened to see this really hot chick (she's 1 year younger than me, alot shorter, but damn hot) when I was passing through the apartment complex.

Now, this chick I saw goes to my school, and being my extremely AFC a while back, I never really did anything. She passed me by, I think she looked at me once or so, but I was all shy and crap. The thing is, I don't know if she actually lives there, or is visiting someone or what, so I may not get any chance to see her again.

Anyways, now that I've learned all this DJ stuff, and I'm not afraid of girls anymore :)D ), I now want to try and sex this chick. So here's my incredible plan:

Tomorrow, I'm gonna go jogging through the complex and see if I can spot this chick. If I actually do see her again, I'll use the best opener I have: "Hey, what's up?", and see what happens from there.

I could use some tips or suggestions for doing this, for I'm not exactly 'suave'. Thanks...
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your plan seems alright. There is no other way of getting to know her anyway. And how do know she isn't an airhead or physco or something like that?
 
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Ok, this is what I think I'm gonna do:

Me: "Hey"
Her: "Hi"
Me: "Can I ask you a quick question?"
Her: "Sure"
Me: "Are you single?"
Her: "(some surprised reaction, or maybe a yes or no), why?"
Me: "Well, I know someone who I think would really like you, and I think you should consider going (some place) with him"

Then I'll take it from there.
 
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The best opener is "you're fit but my gosh don't you know it." That hi/hello cliche is so 1946. Move up with the times. Walk up to her and say "you're fit but my gosh don't you know it." She'll love that line. Then say(because you're going jogging) dang I'm really tired, do you think you can write down your digits on this piece of paper for me? Boom, you're in.
 
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