"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, here's the 411. I've gotta admit, I live in a crappy apartment (I mean apartments in general, I actually live in a nice one), and I can't wait till I move to a house. Anyways, so I was traveling home after my awesome singing lessons, and I happened to see this really hot chick (she's 1 year younger than me, alot shorter, but damn hot) when I was passing through the apartment complex.

Now, this chick I saw goes to my school, and being my extremely AFC a while back, I never really did anything. She passed me by, I think she looked at me once or so, but I was all shy and crap. The thing is, I don't know if she actually lives there, or is visiting someone or what, so I may not get any chance to see her again.

Anyways, now that I've learned all this DJ stuff, and I'm not afraid of girls anymore :)D ), I now want to try and sex this chick. So here's my incredible plan:

Tomorrow, I'm gonna go jogging through the complex and see if I can spot this chick. If I actually do see her again, I'll use the best opener I have: "Hey, what's up?", and see what happens from there.

I could use some tips or suggestions for doing this, for I'm not exactly 'suave'. Thanks...
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your plan seems alright. There is no other way of getting to know her anyway. And how do know she isn't an airhead or physco or something like that?
 
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Ok, this is what I think I'm gonna do:

Me: "Hey"
Her: "Hi"
Me: "Can I ask you a quick question?"
Her: "Sure"
Me: "Are you single?"
Her: "(some surprised reaction, or maybe a yes or no), why?"
Me: "Well, I know someone who I think would really like you, and I think you should consider going (some place) with him"

Then I'll take it from there.
 
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The best opener is "you're fit but my gosh don't you know it." That hi/hello cliche is so 1946. Move up with the times. Walk up to her and say "you're fit but my gosh don't you know it." She'll love that line. Then say(because you're going jogging) dang I'm really tired, do you think you can write down your digits on this piece of paper for me? Boom, you're in.
 
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