ive got a question...

[punkrockpylot]

ok, so ive known this girl since middle school and we are now both seniors...(some history is required)...i had a crush on her through 7th grade but a friend of mine was going out with her...i asked her out in 8th grade but she "didnt like me like that"...

i have continued to like her and we are very good friends...i was telling her tonight how im going to start improving my traits that drive girls away so that i can be more successful with women...i.e. getting into the friends-zone etc. when i told her this, she seemed kind of confused...

she got a little irate when i informed her that i was no longer going to be her emotional tampon anymore, giving the argument that were are too good of friends to date and all this BS...her interest level is moderate to high...i know this...but she always pulls the "too good of friends" card when i even suggest going out at all...

here's my question...should i initiate ganji games? it may work but ive never personally used ganji games, in my situation, do you suggest i initiate gg or not?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

i think that you have no chance with this chick. I could be wrong but you have already told her you liked her and she said she didn't like you that way, she has said you are too close of a friend on numerous occasions. She is not playing hard to get, take your advice on your sig and buy a clue, she doesn't like you that way, you have been way too deep in the friend zone to be savable, move on to different chicks. You don't tell her your intentions, you let her know buy your actions, read the Bible some more and you'll get the idea.

If you do the ganggi games then she'll be concernbed because one of her gal pal friends no longer listens to her, that won't maker her attracted to you, just make her feel guilty that she didn't go with you and u might get a pity vote (what kind of man wants that?)

You say u "had a crush" but it is obvious u still do but are in the friend zone. You are gonna have to move on. You can do it now, or when she finally makes her intentions clearer that she isn't interested in you. Find another girl not everyone will want to f!ck you but there are tons of fine girls more willing than her.

 

[MVPlaya]

I think mic is on the money with this one,

Game over pal, she doesn't want you. You've been LBJF'd too hard to change that unless you take some painstaking time and patience (I've seen it done once, the Friend to BF transformation took 8 months) and from the signals I see you ain't gonna make it, so do yourself a favor, and get over it.

By the way, ganji is to be used when they are attracted to you in some bit, if she has low IL it may stay low or disappear completely, ganji is used when she has a mid-range IL but something is stopping her from dating you, to quote some dead french poet:

"Distance is to love what wind is to fire: it extinguishes the small, enkindles the great."

Skip past all the AFC implications and I am sure you get the DJ meaning of that. Now its time for me to Ganji you...

 

[blienk]

Mic and MVPlaya are both right. One LJBF is pretty tough to come back from, and you've gotten it multiple times? Three LJBFs and you're out, as in out of this girl's romantic life forever. Time to move along now...

On another note, you said:

"i was telling her tonight how im going to start improving my traits that drive girls away so that i can be more successful with women...i.e. getting into the friends-zone etc. when i told her this, she seemed kind of confused..."

Don't talk about stuff like that to a girl, especially one you're trying to DJ. It's like showing your cards in a game of poker, you just don't wanna do it.