"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've got a pretty little bet here...

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Earlier today I bet this girl 5 bucks she couldn't get me in two weeks. Since she knows I'm hard to get she pulled "Damn two weeks isn't enough time at all"

I was joking around with her later and SHE pulled the "I bet you can't get me in two weeks"

I accepted. Winner chooses whatever they want after the bet.

I'm assuming shes going to expect me to spit mad game and try to charm her pants off, but I'm not. Her interest level is sky high and I haven't done much. First few days, she's not going to get much attention from me. Then I'll start the push/pull deal.

This girl is locked in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So you play it like a game, and the final day, when you two are on a date, you start spiting SEDUCTION GAME, in particular, you want to flirt, get her to flirt back, and joke, do hot and cold techniques on her, and when she least expects it, play the Deepest Desire Truth and Dare game. Pretty well, if she picks truth, you ask her questions about you indirectly, or questions about her desires, and if she picks dare, dare her to trust you, hold both her hands and draw her in slowly.

And have a smart ass way to dodge the dares/truths she asks you.
 

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ha I'll keep you up to date.

Today every now and then she'd ask "So are you planning anything for our little bet"

To be honest I told her I wasn't worried about it.

Later in the conversation she invited me over to watch porn. Jokingly of course, but this girl is showin crazy signs.

Can't get over this chicks curves...5'2, DD's. Firm lol it's crazy stuff. No school tomorrow, so the bet doesn't officially start until Tuesday.

As for "smart ass responses"...I am king of smartass responses. Apparently she finds me being a smartass a "turn on"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey,

Looks like you have yourself a solid girl.

I'm not by all means suitable to give you this kind of advice (check my last thread) but if I were in your situation I would wait till the last second, of the last minute, of the last day of the bet... then just kiss her.

Then tell her you lose, and jsut continue to kiss her anyways.

This is what I would've done.
 

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Lol, hey dude what hapens if neither of you get eachother and it's a tie?
 

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lol she's probally getting drunk and pounded by some guy right now and forgot about the bet.
 

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Hah she keeps reminding me. This girl is head over heels for me...stayed after her study hall one day just to see me, and i didn't even know who she was. Kept getting her friends to try to walk me to class. Even asked the teacher about me. She's on my like flies on sh*t fellas.

And steg, the bet is that I will get her. If I don't get her, I lose, she wins. There is no tie in this one.
 

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Update: I didn't talk to the girl, but I banged some other girl lol


This is getting interesting
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Update: This, fellas, is why you should always maintain multiple flirting interests

Quick little AIM conversation between me and the bet girl. THe lindsey girl mentioned is a different girl from the one I banged on monday

I'll call the Bet girl: Girl A
The one I banged: Girl B
And this Lindsey girl: Girl C

**: hey slut
SkillaStaz: where?
**: look in the mirror. ull see the slut i saw today at school.
SkillaStaz: ha oops
**: lol.
**: nerd
**: hey
**: i have a question
SkillaStaz: ok
**: is that lindsey chick ur gf?
SkillaStaz: nope
SkillaStaz: y
**: everyone is sayin she is
**: idk
SkillaStaz: whos every1
**: ppl i know lol.
SkillaStaz: names
**: lol
**: amanda... and a few other ppl in my class
SkillaStaz: whos amanda
**: apparently they thought yall were dating cuz ur 'all over eachother in the halls and in 1st hour
SkillaStaz: ah i see
**: mmmhm
**: so i figured id ask
**: im no homewrecker


Jealousy my friends. It's starting to kick in, making this bet even easier. She knows shes got competition.
 

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oh Fa Sho...

Girl C is becoming quite "smitten" with me. Girl A sent me some, interesting pictures, and Girl B is still flirty and touchy. All go to my school as well. It's quite entertaining.
 

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Girl A found out I got laid on monday, now wants to have a threesome with girl D. Girl E wants to have a threesome with girl A because she thinks girl A has an amazing body.

Whew.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Win the bet on tuesday :p

Tell 'Girl A' that she's having a 3some with u and "someone else" who's already at ur house.

She'll come over, u open the door..she'll ask "where is the other one", then to deliver the punch line and seal the deal say(smartly)" its a 3some, u, me, and my ****" and just go in for the kiss.
 

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oh girl a already wants this to go down on saturday haha

no need to play games now
 

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I'll get you some proof. No worries my friend. Glad to see somebodys a skeptic, just like myself.
 

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GaryUranga said:
go for the threesome instead and send me a video but cover your face, I'll say its me

Ha that was my choice if i win, I was gonna get her and a few of her friends ( the more the better) and tape it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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