"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've got a favour to ask!

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I want to ask a favour from all the AFCs and keyboard jockys here:-

If you are not getting laid, please stop posting advice on scoring women! If you've never had a serious relationship, please don't post relationship advice! If you don't hang out with any women, don't post any advice AT ALL!

Come on guys, go sort yourself out and stop filling this board with your theoretical bullsh*t and keep your unproductive attitudes to yourself!

If we want tips on masturbation, we'll get in touch!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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let me take a shot at this

flipinfreak,bonerthestoner,ethn....(something or other).....

for fvck sake take a hike already





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spider_007 said:
let me take a shot at this

flipinfreak,bonerthestoner,ethn....(something or other).....

for fvck sake take a hike already
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I ask questions buddy... this message is to people who give advice.
 

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spider_007 said:
let me take a shot at this

flipinfreak,bonerthestoner,ethn....(something or other).....
I wasn't singling anyone out,. This applies to all the guys here who give advice where they have no experience!

There are lots of posters here who talk a big game and are real good at spitting out textbook advice they read elsewhere but you can tell from their posts they have no clue!

The guys with cynical attitudes and distrust towards women for example. I cannot believe those guys ever get any female attention if thats how they think! I find it hard to believe they even have any friends.

I'm no psychologist but I can smell bullsh*t and a lot of the posts here reeek of it!
 

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The Truth said:
I want to ask a favour from all the AFCs and keyboard jockys here:-

If you are not getting laid, please stop posting advice on scoring women! If you've never had a serious relationship, please don't post relationship advice! If you don't hang out with any women, don't post any advice AT ALL!

Come on guys, go sort yourself out and stop filling this board with your theoretical bullsh*t and keep your unproductive attitudes to yourself!

If we want tips on masturbation, we'll get in touch!
lol U dont post any advice, so my guess is the above holds true for u?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Truth said:
I want to ask a favour from all the AFCs and keyboard jockys here:-

If you are not getting laid, please stop posting advice on scoring women! If you've never had a serious relationship, please don't post relationship advice! If you don't hang out with any women, don't post any advice AT ALL!

Come on guys, go sort yourself out and stop filling this board with your theoretical bullsh*t and keep your unproductive attitudes to yourself!

If we want tips on masturbation, we'll get in touch!
That made me laugh in real life.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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I agree 110%. Those who don't know much need to keep their mouths' shut, learn, and go gain experience. Those who have experience will help "teach" you and then one day after you gain experience you'll be the ones giving the advice.

If you hadn't played a game of organized basketball in your life, you wouldn't go on a basketball forum and start posting advice. It's even worse to do that here.

Get your egos in check and realize that you shouldn't give advice unless you have experience. This board has the potential to be great, but guys need to check themself before they try to give advice.
 

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I'm nailing Rosey Palm and her 5 sisters! Totally, I'm a stud. Alpha male all the way baby. *bangs on chest and runs thru wall*
 

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GatorBait said:
I agree 110%. Those who don't know much need to keep their mouths' shut, learn, and go gain experience. Those who have experience will help "teach" you and then one day after you gain experience you'll be the ones giving the advice.

If you hadn't played a game of organized basketball in your life, you wouldn't go on a basketball forum and start posting advice. It's even worse to do that here.

Get your egos in check and realize that you shouldn't give advice unless you have experience. This board has the potential to be great, but guys need to check themself before they try to give advice.
I agree. I'm guilty of giving advice about women to other men while I'm dating my hand on the weekends.
 

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There should be a meter that shows experience level. (aside from reputation)

IE: FR's add to it, or from experience advice only.
We'll make it really goddamn big so people can actually look at a person and say 'yeah, he posts fr's and real-life advice, and it's sensible, listen to him'

That's what we need, or reputation needs to be better depicted so we can tell that Shezz has more rep then me, for example.

Allen, you hear eh?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Schmuck said:
I agree. I'm guilty of giving advice about women to other men while I'm dating my hand on the weekends.
This type of unbridled honesty is to be commended :up:
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
lol U dont post any advice, so my guess is the above holds true for u?
I believe you missed the point.
 

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Good post and I agree with every word!

I can usually tell the difference between genuine posters and keyboard jockeys, but newbies here are naive enough to take any advice they're given. I know I did!

I second Docs too. The reputation system needs an overhaul!

Another idea is that you can't add/deduct reputation points until your own reputation is over a certain total. That way we won't get clueless newbies and trolls influencing rep points.
 
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