I dont want to be picky about the small things in the dating thing, but i wanted to get some peoples opinion. If i have a few "prospects", and i went on a date with one this week and the other the next, and they found out, would this be bad for me?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.