“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've gone and fallen for a girl.

Maurizio 2.0

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Well, usually this doesn't happen, but like the title would indicate, I've completely fallen for a girl. Don't give me all the "onitis" stuff and tell me I need to diversify. Sometimes you just can't help things like this happening (at least I know I can't).

She's very pretty (I think), but not what most guys would call hot -- and as such, she doesn't have lot's of guys who throw themselves at you. She's classified herself as a nerd acually... although I wouldn't have said that. It makes me feel like she's kinda insecure, and she's definately pretty shy.

We connect well in conversation, have a lot in common in terms of views, morals and such. Although she's shy she doesn't seem to have a tough time talking to me. I've hung out with her a bunch of times now without getting anywhere physical, and things have gone about as well as I could hope for. She gave me her number befor thanksgiving break and told me to call her. I couldn't resist, and so I did. When I called I was checking to see if she wanted to hang out the next day, but she ended up asking me if I wanted to come over Right Then. I declined and said I was busy at the moment -- but we still hung out the next day. We didn't get much alone time since her twin sister came with us out to eat and walking around near the beach...

Oh whatever, I'm rambling.

I guess I'm just saying that I'm kinda scared of ending up in friend zone with this one, but I feel like I can't move too fast because she's shy.

Oh whatever... this sucks.

- Maurizio
 

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You need to let her know that you want more than friendship real quick.

One way to show this is to plant one on her the next time you're alone with her - she'll get the idea. I don't care how shy she is - girls like to be kissed. Don't worry how awkward it is, just do it. I am the king of awkward kisses and I've never had it backfire on me.

Another way to show how you feel is to hold her hand the next time you ask her to go somewhere with you. Don't be weird about it, if it feels right then just do it.

Oh, and she digs you. Any girl who gave me her number and asked me to come over was getting fucqed by me within a couple of weeks. :)
 

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Good luck dude. There is nothing wrong with falling in love, just make sure she's worth it.
 

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Thanks guys.

I know I need to make my move real soon -- and I intend to. I'm waiting to get her by herself. I need to make a bigger effort to apply the kino.

I've only really 'fell' for two girls in my past, and both of those girls I messed up with -- AFC/clueless fart. I mannaged to creep one of them out, and the other ended up as a friend.

I'd really like not to fcuk up this time -- and I think I have the confidence not to.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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