"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've figured out how to open girls who wear headphones....

Guitar_Whizz

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Following an approach I did on the train today, I 'accidently' figured out how to open girls who are wearing headphones.

It has been said by certain people in the community that you need a fancy line or opener to tackle this scenario. Lance Mason suggested some ideas....well I'm here to tell you that you DON'T need anything fancy here...

All you need to do is say your opener (any opener will do) as normal, but make sure you look directly at her (and make it obvious with your body language) while you say your opener. This will make it obvious to her that you're talking to her. Once she's realised you're talking to HER, in most cases the girl will simply take off her headphones and you can repeat your opener and carry on the sarge as you would any other girl....

Absolutely simple! This is no longer a barrier!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Once she's realised you're talking to HER, in most cases the girl will simply take off her headphones
if the girl is nice and polite, she will remove her headphones. Honestly when I know the guy is trying to speak to me, I avoid eye contact and looking directly at him.

Some times I'm not even listening to anything and the headphones are on, and I can hear everything that the guy is saying. But I chose to ignore him and walk away.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Guitar_Whizz said:
...Absolutely simple! This is no longer a barrier!
:yes: Getting a woman's attention first does wonders!
 

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act like you are mouthing something to her, and when she takes her earphones off to her you, keep mouthing words but not actually ennuciating them. Then give 'em a smile. If they are playful you can get an opening from that
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i have figured out a way to have a girl wearing headphones chase you...

go upto her, snatch her audio player and run! :whistle:
 

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I like the "in most cases" and "I figured out today" parts..


Just say how it is. You're not sure, you discovered something, it's not tested beyoung that one yet.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
act like you are mouthing something to her, and when she takes her earphones off to her you, keep mouthing words but not actually ennuciating them. Then give 'em a smile. If they are playful you can get an opening from that
:crackup:

Good idea.

I'm gonna try this sometime.
 
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