"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Duddeeee, just have fun with them. Have fun yourself and keep yourself on #1.

Tease, kino enjoy, no interest? Move the f*ck on and talk to the next one.

Escalate if shes interested, kiss if she doesnt want to kiss make fun of her, flirt with other girls and try again in a bit. F*ck her good and push/pull don't let her iniate after dates. Don't get emotionally invested and enjoy women. Don't let your mood get affected by any girl.

F*ck every girl you can and enjoy.

Amen
 

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It's hard to have fun with them when they're f*cking dumb as a pile of bricks.
 

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TheGambino said:
Duddeeee, just have fun with them. Have fun yourself and keep yourself on #1.

Tease, kino enjoy, no interest? Move the f*ck on and talk to the next one.

Escalate if shes interested, kiss if she doesnt want to kiss make fun of her, flirt with other girls and try again in a bit. F*ck her good and push/pull don't let her iniate after dates. Don't get emotionally invested and enjoy women. Don't let your mood get affected by any girl.

F*ck every girl you can and enjoy.

Amen

This should be the mindset of everyone here.
 

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SeymourCake said:
It's hard to have fun with them when they're f*cking dumb as a pile of bricks.

OP is right in some ways. It's not like you can just jump into bed with a woman without interacting with them first (unless you're a pro athlete). You do have to do stuff like text to hang out, go on dates, etc. This involves dealing with women outside of the bedroom which can be extremely frustrating. Flaking, AW'ing, dealing with other guys/exes, and b!tching can leave a guy jaded real fast.

Having fun with them is a good outlook but in reality it doesn't always work that way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think TheGambino understands what American women are like.

I've online chatted with a girl from Holland, and we chatted for months (still do sometimes), and she was a great conversationalist. I enjoyed chatting with her and she was interesting as well as having an IQ in the positive range.

However, these wh0res in the U.S? They don't want much from you except your time, attention, space, good, shirts, fun, bed covers, d!ck, passwords, credit cards, life & soul.
 

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I think relationships in any kind are over saturated and people are not using them moderately as they should. I believe relationships keep people content. That is why many scientist are single. I am fine with 2 people liking o lusting over each other and spending time together. But everyday? That is just insane! Everyone needs space and alone time to discover themselves and their lifes passion or purpose. If you don't believe in that, well fine...be content. Women are way to needy and reliant on men for attention and company and money. People need to learn their space and boundaries. Let the loverboys and lovergirls be content in their everyday 9-5 netflix relationships I got a destiny to fullfill. Main point? Like the poster said above have fun with them, don't get attached
 

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I understand what Seymour is talking about. Sometimes you're looking for more than just a body or sex in a woman. You want someone that can match you intellectually when you aren't humping each other's brains out.

Most American women are dumb as $h!t. All they know is Kim Kardashian and Instagram.
 

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Bro just enjoy women. Escalate to sex, have fun move her around, tease her, sweet talk her then back off and be funny nd ****y again. Be unpredictable. At the same time escalate to sex, to your crib, do youre thing enjoy sex, f*ck her good, get some lunch and drop her off at home. Let her fade a bit and go look for the next girl to hang out with and build a harem. Minimize contact true text and phone and have fun again, don't go intoo deep convo's about women drama bullsh1t just have a good time with her f*ck her and drop her off every single time and keep spinning plates.

Why would you go intoo drama with them, when shes mad or so just laugh it off and kiss her and bring up a new convo and always stay positive and smiling. If i see a girl that brings up drama all the time then just cut her off there are lots of fun outgoing girls with less drama. Offcourse all women will bring up some kind of bullsh1t to test you or when theyre jealous, just withdraw your attention then and when she disrespects you: Tell her that and that you don't like that and let her wonder about you for a week or so then hit her up like nothing happened and go for a fun date again that it man.

Walk away from bullsh1t and have fun, enjoy women.

Things to do to prevent bad habits from her:

Let her pay also for dates, she has to come on time, command her once a while (you get away with it believe me). When she f*cks up big time you just cut her off and she will begg for your attention.

I think your kind of right in the country thing, coz girls in Morocco are different from girls in Holland I experienced it. But its all the same to one in a couplle of ways:

Let them respect you, dont take bullsh1t.
Don't get upset by little things just withdraw attention or laugh when shes mad and kiss it away.
Flirt with other girls when she flirts with other guys make her jealous once a while.

and the most important: Have Fun
 

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El Payaso said:
I understand what Seymour is talking about. Sometimes you're looking for more than just a body or sex in a woman. You want someone that can match you intellectually when you aren't humping each other's brains out.

Most American women are dumb as $h!t. All they know is Kim Kardashian and Instagram.

It's funny you mentioned Instagram because thats where I called this b*tch out. She posts an image of some fast food meal and the caption went along the lines of "I just finished hitting the gym! Post workout meal!"

I post a comment saying, "Yeah, that's a smart thing to do".
She responds with, "n!gga. You're annoying. Move". (She's not even black btw).
I respond with, "Yeah, telling someone to move on IG. This isn't real life you deluded c*nt".

She then blocks me (which I don't give a sh!t about).

I was going to add the hashtag, #WhenB!tchesThinkSocialMediaIsRealLife but it was too late.

Oh well. Her loss.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But I thought the general consensus was that girls liked guys who are mature, laid back and relax. Basically a father figure.


That has been embed into my mind. How do I become fun?
 

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TheGambino said:
Bro just enjoy women. Escalate to sex, have fun move her around, tease her, sweet talk her then back off and be funny nd ****y again. Be unpredictable. At the same time escalate to sex, to your crib, do youre thing enjoy sex, f*ck her good, get some lunch and drop her off at home. Let her fade a bit and go look for the next girl to hang out with and build a harem. Minimize contact true text and phone and have fun again, don't go intoo deep convo's about women drama bullsh1t just have a good time with her f*ck her and drop her off every single time and keep spinning plates.

Why would you go intoo drama with them, when shes mad or so just laugh it off and kiss her and bring up a new convo and always stay positive and smiling. If i see a girl that brings up drama all the time then just cut her off there are lots of fun outgoing girls with less drama. Offcourse all women will bring up some kind of bullsh1t to test you or when theyre jealous, just withdraw your attention then and when she disrespects you: Tell her that and that you don't like that and let her wonder about you for a week or so then hit her up like nothing happened and go for a fun date again that it man.

Walk away from bullsh1t and have fun, enjoy women.

Things to do to prevent bad habits from her:

Let her pay also for dates, she has to come on time, command her once a while (you get away with it believe me). When she f*cks up big time you just cut her off and she will begg for your attention.

I think your kind of right in the country thing, coz girls in Morocco are different from girls in Holland I experienced it. But its all the same to one in a couplle of ways:

Let them respect you, dont take bullsh1t.
Don't get upset by little things just withdraw attention or laugh when shes mad and kiss it away.
Flirt with other girls when she flirts with other guys make her jealous once a while.

and the most important: Have Fun
Easier said than done. how's that Morroccon girl btw?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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