"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FlyGuyM

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Hey guys, whats up? i found this forum 2 days ago & This is the first time ive ever wanted to join a forum. i found the site because one of my bro's told me how they get good pick up techniques. All i could say was wow when i read some of the posts, These are greatt! i love people who are just like me, i will be posting alot because i think im a Dj, i was an AFC my freshman year of high school (it wwas freaking horrible), but when i realised nice guys never get ***** i completely changed, and i became a real DJ, ive been in more girls than i can count.. and im so suave; even though girls realize & understand that i'm a heartless guy that has F***'ed & broken there bestfriend's hearts in the past they still allow me to do the same to them.

i actually registered an account just to say this: Guys, summer time for high school students is the best time to F*** girls you never thought you could F***, Seniors :) (Not only because we'll have more free time) since they're graduating and no longer care about their high school reputation...They will deffinetly be intrested in you... as long as you're a DJ & Not a AFC (almost every1 on this forum is a DJ so everyone reading this should be good) Even if you are a AFC all you have to do is use the last couple of months you have with the seniors wisely, text the girl use the techniques youve learned from this site & work fast. ive been with a bunch ov seniors that once said i was "too young" or "like a little brother" because ov this summer method. This year so far 3 Girls have let me & school hasnt even ended yet :)

Take me in to the forum as a little brother guys :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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Ive had summer holiday for 3 weeks soon. Its chill. The real stuff is happening this week. Apart from that, I find the chicks in Norway way more... conservative than in South Africa.

And this forum isnt about techniques, but Im not gonna give you that speech.

And welcome, glad to have you around :)
 

NorwegianDJ

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Nino-Tk said:
Yeah I think every budding Dj should visit South Africa, chicks here are down-to-earth, well, some of them.
I was about to say wild, but we can go with down-to-earth :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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