"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ive been away for a bit and wish to apologize

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U see...part of being a DJ for me is to occasionally let my inner child out. Thats what keeps me interested in MYSELF.
This is my nuts, feelings, work, pride, friends, and unfortunately my family.

You see...i can have...it all...at the expense of others.

Unfortunately... The scales tip one way or the other. The balance comes when you understand you have to give a little.

But its not cookie cutter easy as we see on tv...media...others...its all of us doing it to each other.


So find ur role and improve on it.

I live in the real world and i know im gonna get screwed but i eat shyt and like it. Cuz the pattern is...we all get our turn around the merry go round.

Guys...just drop the act of who u are and start really appreciating the people in your lives. Cuz get what.. If we get to type on here...we are in the top percent. Make it happen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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