I've been "approached" by two girls

[Dr. Dawg]

Right it's not approached in the sense that I was at a bar and two girls came up to me. It's just last night I got a knock on my dorm door and two girls, one who I've talked to 3 nights ago, asked me if I was going out last night.

I've had a **** load of work to do and I told them I was sorry but I couldn't make it.

I find the girl I've talked to before very attractive and I'm definitely interest - but is she, or was it just friendly.

It did seem she was flirting a bit, I mean after I said no she said "You better come out next week".

 

[Nickface]

Damn my man. You had the potential to get some nookie that night and you pretty much turned it away. I don't care if I had the biggest test in my life coupled with the flu, I would have gone out. I'm exaggerating a little bit but I bet she and/or the other girl was interested. That being said, you could probably just get this chick any other day and for sure next week. I wouldn't dwell over not going but that's about as easy as it gets to getting your balls in her mouth come night time.

 

[Dr. Dawg]

Damn my man. You had the potential to get some nookie that night and you pretty much turned it away. I don't care if I had the biggest test in my life coupled with the flu, I would have gone out. I'm exaggerating a little bit but I bet she and/or the other girl was interested. That being said, you could probably just get this chick any other day and for sure next week. I wouldn't dwell over not going but that's about as easy as it gets to getting your balls in her mouth come night time.

Lmao, and me to think she was just being friendly.

Maybe I should've gone out, but I chose not to - and from what you said that I could get with her any day, I think I made the right choice.

Any advice on my plan of action to get with her?

 

[Nickface]

Lmao, and me to think she was just being friendly.

Maybe I should've gone out, but I chose not to - and from what you said that I could get with her any day, I think I made the right choice.

Any advice on my plan of action to get with her?

No problem. I'm not here to say you made wrong or right choice. You had better priorities. Do you have her number? Or is that you just know where she is in the dorm? If I had her number I would just text her in a jokingly way that I owe her and I would like to make it up over some drinks/coffee. If she is interested, let her set the time or she will ask you and you pick the time. If you have to travel to her room, I would pretty much do the same thing but be a little more assertive and tell her your looking for someone to go get a bite to eat with right now so come tag along.

Either way, be prepared to stay distant if things don't work out. It's hard to do that being this is a school setting but you will be fine and wouldn't get emotionally attached. Good luck OP!

 

[Dr. Dawg]

No problem. I'm not here to say you made wrong or right choice. You had better priorities. Do you have her number? Or is that you just know where she is in the dorm? If I had her number I would just text her in a jokingly way that I owe her and I would like to make it up over some drinks/coffee. If she is interested, let her set the time or she will ask you and you pick the time. If you have to travel to her room, I would pretty much do the same thing but be a little more assertive and tell her your looking for someone to go get a bite to eat with right now so come tag along.

Either way, be prepared to stay distant if things don't work out. It's hard to do that being this is a school setting but you will be fine and wouldn't get emotionally attached. Good luck OP!

Rightcha ... I don't have her number :/ I mean we've only known each other for what 4 days or so. I don't think asking her to have a drink/coffee/bite to eat would be too good at the moment ... I mean too soon, don't you think?

If she's interested, she's bound to come knocking at my door again if she's going out again.