I've been a long time lurker on these sed. sites, but I still suck with women!

[Riemann]

Hi guys,

NOTE: To make a long post short, where should I start in relation to applying pick up material? How should I apply it? What are some good ways of going about attracting women? Whats worked for you? That's it. The rest of this post is just background info about how much I suck with women .



I've been a LOOOOOOONG time lurker on these types of seduction websites (Don Juan, mASF, the attraction forums, the Venusian arts forums, etc), but I just CAN'T seem to really make any progress with women. I've read numerous articles from these sites, and while many felt like an epiphany (don't use inactive disinterest when trying to attract a woman, do use negs, blah blah), I just really cant apply any of this **** to my life. I dont know what the **** it is. Maybe its like I read it and think "Wow that was amazing" and the next time I have the opportunity to utilize the information I've just learned I suddenly "forget" it. It's like the info goes in one ear and out the other. I cant believe there are guys out there that can pull this material off night after night! I need to see one in action!

I have made some progress though........ but not enough.

 

[saturos]

Stop reading, and chill out.
The only time i ever do anything different since i've come here is every so often i just check with myself that i'm not saying stupid things, talking too much, or something like that.

 

[DrD77]

Well you sound 100% like me. I love playing the guitar too. Have you been to Beale Street? Massive amounts of blues there man. Anyway, I have read hundreds of articles too on this site and many more and have yet to get any women. I've never even been laid like you have. I think what we have to do is just to go out and try this stuff. We are going to have to get our balls together and talk to the things. Everytime I say I'm going to try today, today will be different ect., I never do. The thing that's making me so angry right now is that I'm going to be so mad when I'm 30 and still in the same boat. And then 40, 50. Regret is going to hurt so much. I think I need a life coach or something to get my ass out there and approach someone of the opposite sex. After all, they put on pants just like us, one leg at a time. They are human. anyway, i think im just rambling now but that's what I think and you aren't alone because I'm am sick of this **** too.