I've become an *******, but I have no one to blame but myself

[Alle_Gory]

I used to think like this. Girls always called me a jerk and to be honest I thought I was doing alright with the whole "game" thing.

Well are you?

With me, I got a rapid reality check when I got out of highschool and I learned to people before myself in situations when It is needed. I have some symptoms of NPD.

Balance. Can't be a douche ALL the time, its damaging. Sometimes as you say, you SHOULD put other people before yourself. But its rare. Because let's face it everyone is selfish to an extent.

 

[ketostix]

A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:[1]
1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance
2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love (megalomania)
3. Believes they are "special" and can only be understood by, or should associate with, people (or institutions) who are also "special" or of high status
4. Requires excessive admiration
5. Has a sense of entitlement
6. Is interpersonally exploitative
7. Lacks empathy
8. Is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
9. Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes


Yup, that sums up most of us. However with NPD, it is an inate/natural reaction. The PUA and associated communities know full well that they are creating these attributes in themselves.

I think that sums up virtually every woman I ever seen. I don't know of one woman who doesn't exhibit at least 5 or 6 of those traits with 3 of them especially. Some common ones for most females are:
1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance
4. Requires excessive admiration
5. Has a sense of entitlement
6. Is interpersonally exploitative
8. Is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
9. Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

 

[Hughman]

I think that sums up virtually every woman I ever seen. I don't know of one woman who doesn't exhibit at least 5 or 6 of those traits with 3 of them especially. Some common ones for most females are:
1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance
4. Requires excessive admiration
5. Has a sense of entitlement
6. Is interpersonally exploitative
8. Is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
9. Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

Haha, something has just clicked for me.

We are fighting fire with fire. But because this community knows that as men we are more assertive and have natural tendencies to have authority over women, we win.

 

[KontrollerX]

"I will make more enemies in my new state, but unlike before, I don't care what they think, and if they do wish to bring things to a head, then bring it. I can stand my ground."

Well the thing to remember is even if you were to become say a morality DJ...sure those guys can have great success too but when it comes to human nature and I'm talking of the people you interact with out there in the world the greater you become, the more popular you become for your good moral deeds and way of being the cool guy who everyone looks up to...just being that bright shining star in and of itself brings with it hateful and jealous people.

Why are they hateful and jealous if you are just trying to do good in your life you may wonder?

Well its mostly because the people that hate you and are jealous of you they see their own inadequacies when compared to you and their light shines very dim whilst yours completely obliterates theirs with its brightness.

Many of these people have the wrong way of thinking about things.

You may be looking to uplift them as well as a morality DJ but because you already inadvertently make them feel so inadequate by simply being you ie the awesome DJ guy they are so determined to keep hating you they rationalize your trying to uplift them and make them happy as your mocking them.

So at the end of the day I figure its better to simply be a player DJ.

You're going to be hated no matter what so might as well be the kind of DJ that has a lot of fun with being hated and benefits from it.

Being hated just gives the morality DJ's an ulcer.

 

[youbaby11]

Well are you?



Balance. Can't be a douche ALL the time, its damaging. Sometimes as you say, you SHOULD put other people before yourself. But its rare. Because let's face it everyone is selfish to an extent.

ahh i like how you put this

 

[PectoralisMajor]

yea, your definitely 100% an **********


PS - I didnt read one word of your thread..

 

[Hughman]

yea, your definitely 100% an **********


PS - I didnt read one word of your thread..

Er, thanks?