I've become AFC, and she's losing interest....can I save it?

[JoeMarron]

For someone who doesn't "care about sex". You sure ask her about it a lot.


Until you can be honest with yourself and your desires, your relationship with her is doomed and the best you can hope for is sex doled out to you in obligatory fashion while she fvks other men behind your back.


But yes, of course, you know everything and have "proven the others wrong".

Yep. OP you think you've accomplished something major...but you still haven't fvcked her. She's basically drip feeding you and youre eating it up. Her taking her top off doesn't mean sh!t. Stick your c0ck in her, multiple times, whenever you want then we can talk about you proving the doubters wrong.

 

[adam225]

Is this a TheException alt? Actions not words. You claim you are the prize but you act like a beta with no self respect.

So true.... :yes:

 

[Cerwin Vega]

She won't have me crying. I know have the mindset that I'm the trophy. If she leaves me it's her loss. And it's made things a heck of a lot better. I'm not nearly as needy anymore and she's wanting me more and more because of it!

I think we've all been through that road. Oh well, OP is too *****-blinded to accept the truth.

 

[Stfoley23]

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/?u...49373790&rm=146edd1f35ecd14d&zw&sz=w1342-h547


everyone saying im blind and oblivious and it was all over.

things couldnt be better now

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Not always true anymore

Yeah, but you gut tells you something ain't right.

 

[zinc4]

Maybe if I were a virgin that would be the case. But now I honestly wouldn't care if I didn't have sex with her til we're married. If I just wanted to have sex I would just go back to hooking up with sluts for a night. Trust me, if a guy has only sex in mind, who's gonna go after a girl that believes in waiting it out for a year? F**k that! I'm in this for the aspect of this is the most I've ever loved a girl, and I want the relationship aspect of it

Dude.....do you even know what love is????? You don't really love this girl...you just think you do...you love your siblings...your mother, father, grandparents maybe....dog....not some immature girl you have been seeing for only a year....that's not real love...you are in love with the feeling of being in love...

I have been there and done that about at your same age.....

You are only 20....go have sex with as many girls as possible...you say you have been there and done that....but you are only 20...you should still be there and doing that...you are too young for a relationship....

And....this one is over....she has no sexual interest in you right now....fiorst of all in the future....STOP thedaily texting....and now you are playing little mind games via text in hopes of changing her feelings....

Here is what you do......

Go silent for a few days and when she contacts you tell her you need some space to think about what she has been saying as lately you have been feeling the same way yourself.....if she tries to change your mind out of vanity, don't fall for it......hold your ground about space and really man...go out and bone some chicks or at least try to.....

Don't ever get back with her unless she calls you crying and begging one day at least a few weeks after this....then if you ever do get back with her, which for your sake, i hope you don't.....you are going to have to keep your new frame and hold it strong and stop with the texting garbage.....

Really though, i hope after you take the break you meet someone else and break up with this girl...you will feel much stronger for it...never let a woman dominate you...that is what's happening right now...she is the dominant one....do you really want that as a man???? Be the bigger stronger person and take the break first...and then sever the relationship on on your accorsd or else she will....