"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ive asked this before. Joining the Army

diplomatic_lies

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Hey Joe, sorry to burst your little bubble, but you do realise it was Japan and Germany who declared war on the US, right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dannowillbookem

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ohhh myyy goddd WHO CARES

listen man dont bother with this politics horseshiit and conspiracy theory people are pissing here. from me to you, listen to me now. go if its BEST FOR YOU. dont worry about whether george bush saw we needed oil and decided to declare a fuccking war over it (unlikely). just accept that you'll be fighting for your country, and if you feel its what you need at this point in your life (military life will change your perspective) then DO IT.

and PLEASE dont get dragged down in this bullshiit debate that has nothing to do with your decision.
 

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dannowillbookem said:
ohhh myyy goddd WHO CARES
listen man dont bother with this politics horseshiit and conspiracy theory people are pissing here. from me to you, listen to me now. go if its BEST FOR YOU.
There are 2 reasons why he would want to go to iraq
1. help his country and the war effort (whether the reasons for the war are good or not)
2. get the training/benefits/pay, IT IS A JOB!

To those that say he shouldn't go because it isn't an honest war and it would be worthless to go because of it, what if he wants to do it for the money and the training? There are a lot of people in Iraq that don't support the reasons for going to war but they are there because IT IS A JOB! Thousands work in Walmart/GAP outlets even if they detest the use of sweatshops by those companies, but then again they are not there to protest they are there working to make money.

I bet most of you bashing the war because you say the real reason is "to make greedy corporations richer," I bet you have shopped at Walmart, GAP or other places in your life where companies use dirty tactics such as sweatshops to enrich themselves. So you are hypocrites, we all are hypocrites.

I wanted to join to get the military training which is known for straightening out slackers and turning boys into men. It would do wonders for a lazy slob like me ;) but Im afraid of war and I don't know if I could kill someone so I wouldn't go. Although if Iraq wasn't the real life wild wild west it is now I would probably go. I might think about it a year or 2 from now if things have cooled down over there. I would go to Afghanistan where things are more calm but I dont think they let you chose where you get to go.

Just think about what is good for you and then make your decision.
 
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dannowillbookem

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Joe The Homophobe said:
There are 2 reasons why he would want to go to iraq
1. help his country and the war effort (whether the reasons for the war are good or not)
2. get the training/benefits/pay, IT IS A JOB!
exactly. dont let ted kennedy's most recent comments influence you between a life of straightlace/studying and a life of adventure/risk. politics is shiit, most of them are fake power hungry fools. focus on what you need.

im too young, but to be honest it sorta does look tempting.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
ohhh myyy goddd WHO CARES

listen man dont bother with this politics horseshiit and conspiracy theory people are pissing here. from me to you, listen to me now. go if its BEST FOR YOU. dont worry about whether george bush saw we needed oil and decided to declare a fuccking war over it (unlikely). just accept that you'll be fighting for your country, and if you feel its what you need at this point in your life (military life will change your perspective) then DO IT.

and PLEASE dont get dragged down in this bullshiit debate that has nothing to do with your decision.
Conspiracy theories?

Ever watch the news? It's the same **** we are repeating to him.

Just so I know, exactly which parts are conspiracy?
Killibng of civilians, roadside bombs, soldiers coming back with horrible wounds, contractors getting their share of Iraq to "rebuild" as they see fit.

Which part is the "conspiracy"? I would really like to know.


And as for it not being an honest war, I bet the guy will feel real good knowing he killed lots and lots of people all in the name of his country's corporations. Real good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ssj245 said:
imagine the satisfaction you get from blowing a hole through those fu&kheads. All my anger would be released. Lol

I was thinking about it, from the perspect of it helping me more.
I think you need psychiatric help.


The idea of killing people to improve your own rock-bottom self-esteem, or as a way to 'get back' at people who've made you feel inferior throughout the years is motive that would echo resoundingly with the majority of twisted, psychopathic serial killers out there.
 
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