"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've always had a problem with women

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Title explains it perfectly

I've always had a problem connecting with women. I'm 24 now and this is just getting ridiculous, I remember the first time I got rejected in first grade, I felt like complete **** and during middle school I can't tell you how many times I got in trouble with the principal and even got suspended because I was talking to girls in a way that their parents found wasnt suitable. Then high school rolls around and every girl thinks im a soft weak person because im not very social and didnt give a **** (mostly over the trauma ive experienced with girls thus far) and now at 24 the same applies, girls that I talk to now thinks they can try and be the boss over me and try to control me.

Every girl that I tempted to talk to all my life either tried getting me in trouble, never loved me, lost interest, gets extremely bitchy and argumentative; proceeds to cry when I become the ******* then tries to get me in trouble or perceive me as a beta male

I'm getting so many matches on tinder but the girls tend to lose interest very quickly, I match/ talk to 10 to 20 girls a week and when the weekends comes they all flake and i never talk to again and the cycle repeats over and over again. I'm tired of this, I just dont want to try anymore because if I do nothing will truly ever come from it. Ive talked to almost 100+ girls in the last 6 months and nothing came out of it and the ones with potential lost interest. Women has always been a NEGATIVE PROBLEM in my life, never positive not even my mother.

I honestly dont think the DJ life is for me even tho I believe to understand all of its concepts and fundamentals, it just doesnt work for me. Maybe I'm too traumatized by my childhood but I would never spit back out the blue pill because I dont think women even care and one way or another you'll end up alone. Nothing lasts forever. This site has helped me out a lot and showed me the true colors but after this experience how can I ever even be involved with a women when they never showed major interest in me at 24. How will it be different when im 30 or even 40. Even if I gain more experience, become wiser and successful it is still a waste of time because women would only go after a guy for materialistic reasons but never the right reasons. It's just pointless. Sorry for the long rant but I had to get it out my chest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LARaiders85 said:
Stop using online dating, it's not advantageous to most men.
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It's not like real life or going to bars are actually helping me out because it's the same ****. Tho this time women try to think im their lil ***** that they can toy around with or small talk dies really quickly as always.
 
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ChangePages said:
It's not like real life or going to bars are actually helping me out because it's the same ****. Tho this time women try to think im their lil ***** that they can toy around with or small talk dies really quickly as always.
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Do you even stand up for yourself? Do you act as if you deserve some fucking respect or do you just put your head down and accept it?

Pick up on small signs of disrespect and throw it straight back in their faces, that usually works. I remember being at a party at my friends house, his new girlfriend and her sister treated me with disrespect. They had been controlling the music for a long time and refused to give up the remote, so I just snapped it out of their hands. Assertively told them it was my turn and to keep their hands off, in an instant their behavior changed. The contrast was hilarious, suddenly I was the cool guy.
 
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dude99 said:
Agreed. Most women on online dating sites don't want to date. They want attention/ego boost/validation.
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Is false value...Hoes want to be thought of as a quality woman. In the end...they're just receptacles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I feel like online dating could be a useful tool, but you need to go out in real life and do it too. It's like when you're first learning to read time. You don't start with learning the easy way on digital. You start the hard way. That's the same thing with dating. You want to master or at least be passable in real life before you go the easy route.

It's def been a struggle for me. sometimes I feel like I can get any girl and other times I feel like I can't. My biggest issue is losing weight and getting in shape. I'm not really fat, but not really in shape which def hurts my confidence. With that being said, I try talking to girls now. Even if its just a friendly chit chat. This way when I'm in shape, I've already been practing.
 
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Even if I gain more experience, become wiser and successful it is still a waste of time because women would only go after a guy for materialistic reasons but never the right reasons. It's just pointless. Sorry for the long rant but I had to get it out my chest.
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It's not a waste of time, because that's what life is all about, bettering yourself and reaching your goals. Women are the waste of time, seriously
 
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