"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ITT: We list good music that gets you into the right frame of mind

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Every be feeling like an AFC, low in spirits, wussy-like, and then suddenly hear a song, and boom, you're smacked back into shape.

Eminem's "Criminal" did this to me once.

Other good songs would be songs where a woman is singing about how crazy she is about some mysterious guy.

I'll download any songs here that people suggest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stratovarius - Eagleheart

This is one of my favorite songs of all time, by my favorite band of all time.... :rockon:

If you read the lyrics (which are posted on the right-hand side of the link I have provided below), they tell about the story a young man who turns his miserable life around solely through his own power of will

Nothing can be more in line with the original philosophy of this site :cool:

Stratovarius - Eagleheart
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCnn7WEQIDI
 

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Holding Out For a Hero - Bonnie Tyler

The_Reaper said:
Other good songs would be songs where a woman is singing about how crazy she is about some mysterious guy.
Got just what you're looking for right here my man :yes:

Although it's not rap, heavy metal or any of the other traditional "Alpha-Male" music genres, the premise of this song is that she is calling out for a true man aka a "Don Juan"

She's tired of all the AFCs that are running around in the world today (even though the song was made in 1985) and she will gladly hold out and wait for a real man to come along :cool:

Holding Out For a Hero - Bonnie Tyler
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f_HsjpSVaI​
 

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Here's another interesting rendition of the I Need a Hero song....

Prisoners in a Filipino correctional facility a beautifully coregraphed dance for the entertainment of others :D

Kinda makes you wish the authorities in Western countries were more like this doesn't it?
Making prisoners actually do something productive with their lives while there instead of just playing basketball and killing eachother with knives...

Surely this can be a valid reason for the establishment of an Authoritarian government? :yes:

 

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I usually only listen to rock/alternative. Here's my list that just puts me in a good fvcking mood.

Oasis - Don't look back in anger
Alice In Chains - Rooster
Live - Lightning Crashes
Eve 6 - Here's to the Night
Boston - Foreplay
Oasis - Champagne Supernova
Eve 6 - Beautiful Oblivion
Brand New - Seventy times 7

Their softer rock, which I love. Best part is I play them on dates and girls usually like them too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dragonforce - The Fire Still Burns
actually, most dragonforce songs.
Some stuff by disturbed (meaning of life is intense)

Lots of songs by Joe Satriani: Out of the sunrise, Rubina's Blue Sky Happiness, Dog with Crown and Earring, Surfing with the Alien, Redshift Riders, etc etc etc etc

Tunnel Vision - John Petrucci

Kings of Leon's early stuff: Taper jean girl, red morning light, the bucket, velvet snow, etc
Kings of Leon - My Party

Muse - Map of the Problematique
Muse - Hyper Music
Muse - Butterflies and Hurricanes
Muse - Knights of Cydonia
Muse - Assassin

Queen - Killer Queen
Queen - Don't Stop Me Now

Journey - Don't Stop Believing
Live - Hold me Up

LOTS of stuff by The Strokes: Electricityscape, Ize of the World, Someday, Hard to Explain, Reptilia, You Only Live Once, etc
 

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Some great stuff here. I'm looking forward to downloading all the ones I don't have.
 

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Good stuff.

Im suprised no ones listed any arctic monkeys (you look good on the dancefloor, still take you home), they're all about taking girls home.
 

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Biggie - Hypnotize/Gimmie the Loot/Kick in the Door/The What/Going Back to Cali

Biggie gives u like a "fvck everybody imma get mine" attitude.
Listening to music in the moment works wonders on ur confidence.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm in the Mood said:
Biggie - Hypnotize/Gimmie the Loot/Kick in the Door/The What/Going Back to Cali

Biggie gives u like a "fvck everybody imma get mine" attitude.
Listening to music in the moment works wonders on ur confidence.
I like "One More Chance" by Biggie - very player-y music
 

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^yeah I must agree with that. I didn't list it cause I have it off ready to die and never listen to it much since the phone call skits at the beginning are kinda annoying, but the lyrics still tell you "I'm a playa."
 

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top gun anthem

best song to put into a '' i own the world'' state.
 

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Spank Rock - Bump

Gangstarr - Work
^^ Perfect song...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lynyrd Skynyrd - Simple Man

Accept no imitations. It reminds me to get out there and live life.
 

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Bat country - avenged sevenfold
I'm still fly - Drake
These are like my main two pump up songs
 

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1.)Korn: Liar http://www.imeem.com/artists/korn/music/aG5onvGa/korn-liar/

The speaker of the song is talking to a friend with a one-itis, and is telling him to stop being a b1tch and to fvck her one last time and then leave her.

2.) Tool: Vicarious http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hii17sjSwfA

Talks about how the whole world is hostile, and to survive you must feed on others (a good metaphor for how DJs bank on the mistakes of AFCs)

3.) Reel Big Fish: Big Star http://www.imeem.com/people/qBe1HO_/music/wz2HHk2Q/reel-big-fish-big-star/

At first sounds AFC, but if you look further into it, the speaker is talking about how he's such an A-hole and thats why he knows he will end up with the girl.

4.) Avenged Sevenfold: Bat Country http://www.imeem.com/avengedsevenfold/music/vj5BDjp-/avenged-sevenfold-bat-country/

"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man" nuff said.

5.) Lamb of God: Omerta http://www.imeem.com/artists/lamb_of_god/music/XXQptDNO/lamb-of-god-omerta/

If the intro doesn't make you proud to be a man then I question your manhood. Also the song is based on the code in Italina Mafia called "Omerta" which means those who squeal are sentenced to death. Really badass.
 
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