"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's X-mas time, and X-mas grams are here! Seeking feedback!

j8snx1

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HEY DJ's

At school, from 12/5 ~ 12/13, we can purchase christmas grams and give it to people that we want to give to.

I got my sights on two girls:

a junior - HB7

a senior - HB 8

I want to send 'em both X-mas grams, but here's the issue that kind of makes me think twice.

I've known the girls for quite some time, even before I knew about the C&F, Kino, and other essential material! I sound AFC, but I'm really not sure if they're into me. I wanna get their #'s, and set dates before/during the winter break...

...SO, I want to try this method out, and please by all means analyze and critique me on this:

1) I'll send them both the X-mas grams! Hurray.
2) On the grams (if I can write in it) I'll say something like

"Hey ______! Merry X-mas! What better way to spend christmas with your awesome friend Jason! Tell you what. Let's get together and do something fun! You'll regret it if you pass out on this awesome opportunity!

- Making Christmas just a little more exciting,
Jason. "

3) I'll meet up with one or both of them and suggest we go do something. HB7, I'm thinking about karoke or lunch and HB8, I'm thinking about either arcades or lunch.

Once again, give me feedbacks on this plan, and if you think there are more effective ways or better methods, please let me know!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd just cut to the point and ask them straight out.

I assume you mean telegrams. Thats *****ing out. Get a yes or no directly from her face.
 

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Candy grams are just candy grams, i'm assuming it has candy.... they're good for sending little funny/cute messages, but they can't number-close/date-close for you. If you want to number-close the girls, you do it yourself like a man who's not intimidated by her or her rejection.

Here's my idea: send her a total AFC, dorky, totally cheezy love note through the gram, and sign it with an alias or something. then when she opens it, you can bust on her with your learned C+F.
And could say to her: omg look at you with cheezy love gram, its so cute.(you laugh AT her). you must be doing something horribly wrong to attract those hopeless dorks. What DO you do if your free time? Hangout in the library??(Bump her with ur side for kino). All right i'll you what, i'm gonna save you from those dorks, this is like my only good deed of the year, i'll let you come hangout with me and my friends during winter break(or whatever you wanna ask her out to.)
then you hand her your cell, and COMMAND her to punch in the numbers, and bust on her how slow she is. and then you walk AWAY! dont stick around and mess up lol.

ok thats my rough idea on how you could carry this out.
 

Damian

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Originally posted by Clayton
Candy grams are just candy grams, i'm assuming it has candy.... they're good for sending little funny/cute messages, but they can't number-close/date-close for you. If you want to number-close the girls, you do it yourself like a man who's not intimidated by her or her rejection.

Here's my idea: send her a total AFC, dorky, totally cheezy love note through the gram, and sign it with an alias or something. then when she opens it, you can bust on her with your learned C+F.
And could say to her: omg look at you with cheezy love gram, its so cute.(you laugh AT her). you must be doing something horribly wrong to attract those hopeless dorks. What DO you do if your free time? Hangout in the library??(Bump her with ur side for kino). All right i'll you what, i'm gonna save you from those dorks, this is like my only good deed of the year, i'll let you come hangout with me and my friends during winter break(or whatever you wanna ask her out to.)
then you hand her your cell, and COMMAND her to punch in the numbers, and bust on her how slow she is. and then you walk AWAY! dont stick around and mess up lol.

ok thats my rough idea on how you could carry this out.

Gold star for a flawless tactic/routine.

-Damian
 
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