"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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David10000

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I just started reading your forum. I have read the DJ Bible and learned a lot. I took the advice of everyone,especially when they said now get out and do it. Which means get off the couch and away from the computer. I went out Friday night and got a couple of phone numbers at the club. What was really amazing was the confidence, I develped from being enlighted with the truth. .(You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free).The posts which really help me were the post on being confident in your on skin or manhood.

I seem to show confidence and it was very evident. I even had one lady, send her sister over to the bar where I was sitting to find out my name. I went over and introduced myself we danced all night and exchanged phone numbers. The funny thing is I even noticed other women checking me out after the fact. Now that I think about it. I could have got alot of numbers that night.

The Board is a God send, everyone keep up the good work. God Bless, You all.:) This really helped me. I feel like I'm rediscovering myself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Obsidian

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Welcome to the real world, recovering AFC. Follow the path of DJ and you will receive your reward. And if you haven't already, make sure to read the Book of Pook eventually.
 

everywomanshero

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As long as you keep up that positive energy, go out just to have fun and see what happens, and don't get "too technical" (serious) about this stuff, you should continue to see dramatic improvement over the next couple of years.

Welcome aboard.
 

The Shocker

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It's great to see someone who reads the bible FIRST and learns everything they can before coming on the forums and asking questions. Good on you for your progress. Keep it up, and keep all of us updated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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