Its what s on the inside...

[Luveno]

Guys, when you were a kid, and your parents were talkin to ya, did they ever tell you that inner beauty is the most important thing, and basically downplay any appreciation and discrimination for physical beauty as shallow? You know, " it's whats on the inside that counts", that kind of bull?

Now, my mother was a very modest woman but was very beautiful when she was in her 20s~30s, and still is for her age. These words coming from her make total sense to me. The real question is: Do parents who are like ...supermodels, SHB100s etc. tell their kids this, because throughout their entire life they got everything based on looks and judged others the same way?

 

[frivolousz21]

what is on the inside is what counts.

that is completely true.


does that apply to attraction?...NO.

u know as well as everyone else here.

that a HB7 who is the most amazing girl on the inside that you want.

you will take over a HB9 who is dull and boring. if you want more than sex.

now if a women a is say 50 lbs overweight.

i mean overweight baby...what is on the inside..ok so she is nice..but obvioius she doenst have the willpower to lose the weight..and dont give me she doenst care..thats the biggest excuse of all. so she is nice with nothign else to offer. so her beauty inside and out is not there.

how many times have you met someone and said wow..they were just overwhelming..wether is a man or women. because they have confidence. and they might be hb 6's but there confidence makes them an 8. so yes the insides count my friend.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Luveno
... Do parents who are like ...supermodels, SHB100s etc. tell their kids this, because throughout their entire life they got everything based on looks and judged others the same way?

I don't think we can answer that question since we are not "supermodels, SHB100's etc."

 

[frivolousz21]

good call there.

 

[McKindley]

What's on the inside only counts (by itself) in friendships. What is attraction to a member of the opposite sex but a person who you like being around, AND you are attracted to them sexually. You take out the sexual attraction and then all you have is a recipe for a good friend.