"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's unbelievable how much harder it is to get women in 23-30 range than 33-40+

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The problem falls when the "7" male cannot attract even one HB6, despite going through the numbers. Then the validity of his being a 7 is called into question.

I have a theory, ready? If you are playing the numbers and the best you can attract are 5s, then you are a 5 at best. :eek:
There seems to be 2 schools of thought concerning the "rating". One is a normalized statistical score, such that the rating is simply 10X the percentile (e.g., a "7" is at 70%-ile, etc.), while the other is price model score, which signifies the score for the prospective romantic interest at which the binary "(s)he's attractive enough" is on the bubble (of course, this would need to have some basis of normalization as a reference). An essential problem is that as normalized per the women's determination of price-level, the rating is less than as per statistics, so a woman who views herself as statistically being at 70%-ile views her "bubble match" to be a man that is statistically at a higher percentile. Thus, even is a man says, "OK, I'm uglier than 1/3 of men, so I'll just take a woman who is uglier than 1/3 of women", a woman on that level would consider him lower than that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It seems that a lot of folks must have bad cameras, because this seems to always be the case with women that folks want to set me up with.
Some women know how to take good pictures and also use filters.
 

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does a low mileage no kids 46yo HB8 without makeup (Russian) trump a 34yo HB7?
for me hit a HB6 she would need to be under 30, maybe

Im 52


there are levels to the HB, personality not sexual prowess etc cannot be a factor
age/figure(style?)/face = HB?
 
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swarthy cab driver? Cab drivers can afford 250 dollar dress shirts now?


I'm only interested in ethnic women - primarily women with similar olive complexion and dark skin like mine. Those nordic women you mentioned look old as hell by about 35-40
why do you care how your women will look after 10 yrs of relationship? mr shallow
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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