"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's unbelievable how much harder it is to get women in 23-30 range than 33-40+

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The problem falls when the "7" male cannot attract even one HB6, despite going through the numbers. Then the validity of his being a 7 is called into question.

I have a theory, ready? If you are playing the numbers and the best you can attract are 5s, then you are a 5 at best. :eek:
There seems to be 2 schools of thought concerning the "rating". One is a normalized statistical score, such that the rating is simply 10X the percentile (e.g., a "7" is at 70%-ile, etc.), while the other is price model score, which signifies the score for the prospective romantic interest at which the binary "(s)he's attractive enough" is on the bubble (of course, this would need to have some basis of normalization as a reference). An essential problem is that as normalized per the women's determination of price-level, the rating is less than as per statistics, so a woman who views herself as statistically being at 70%-ile views her "bubble match" to be a man that is statistically at a higher percentile. Thus, even is a man says, "OK, I'm uglier than 1/3 of men, so I'll just take a woman who is uglier than 1/3 of women", a woman on that level would consider him lower than that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It seems that a lot of folks must have bad cameras, because this seems to always be the case with women that folks want to set me up with.
Some women know how to take good pictures and also use filters.
 

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does a low mileage no kids 46yo HB8 without makeup (Russian) trump a 34yo HB7?
for me hit a HB6 she would need to be under 30, maybe

Im 52


there are levels to the HB, personality not sexual prowess etc cannot be a factor
age/figure(style?)/face = HB?
 
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swarthy cab driver? Cab drivers can afford 250 dollar dress shirts now?


I'm only interested in ethnic women - primarily women with similar olive complexion and dark skin like mine. Those nordic women you mentioned look old as hell by about 35-40
why do you care how your women will look after 10 yrs of relationship? mr shallow
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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